How are you feeling?

MikeyC

MikeyC

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this_portrait said:
Hey, sorry to hear that you're feeling down. I'm glad those things helped you feel at least a little better, and I hope things go well for you and your friends.
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Thanks heaps, portrait. :) The highlight of the night was Corinne, easily. We must've hugged at least 20 times over the course of the night, so that was great. She told me I can text her whenever about any problems I'm having, so it's nice to have that outlet (even though I don't want our friendship based on me venting and her listening constantly).

I'm sure things will work out eventually. Thanks again, portrait. :)
 
BlueDays

BlueDays

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MikeyC said:
Corinne is basically one of the nicest people you'll ever meet. She always has time for me and, were she not my best mate's ex and I didn't have my issues, I wouldn't mind dating her. She's 5 years older than me but that's okay. Basically, she's beautiful inside and out, and I'm glad I know her.
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Is there a rule that a guy can't date his best friends ex?:confused:
(forgive my ignorance, I did not have any brothers or male friends growing up)

Are you sure your best friend would mind if you dated this girl who you seem to really like? It seems sad to miss such a potential opportunity to spend more time with someone who helps you.
 
MikeyC

MikeyC

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BlueDays said:
Is there a rule that a guy can't date his best friends ex?:confused:
(forgive my ignorance, I did not have any brothers or male friends growing up)

Are you sure your best friend would mind if you dated this girl who you seem to really like? It seems sad to miss such a potential opportunity to spend more time with someone who helps you.
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It doesn't particularly bother me if I don't date her. She'd be downgrading from John, I will admit. That's even if she likes me that way, which I'm positive she doesn't.

It's an unwritten rule. When they broke up, I asked John if I should delete her number, and he said it's fine. But I know for a fact he would be a little upset if I dated her, because I think there still might be some left-over feelings between them two. I was watching them act last night and they still hug and talk like they used to. It doesn't make sense that they broke up, but they assure me it's for the best.

I won't be dating her. It's too risky and I have too many intimacy problems that need sorting out.
 
MikeyC

MikeyC

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You're being quite vague there, portrait, but whatever it is I hope it gets fixed soon. :) A messy situation is never a good thing.
 
theslowesthand

theslowesthand

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Story of my life.
Might not be in your "league" people-wise, but i still have the sublime ability or "knack" of doing things in the exact reverse as they are meant to be done.
That is, i firstly go "backwards", so as to "dig myself a hole" with people, and then set about trying to dig myself out of it. Its just the way i've always done things. I dunno why, probably some warped subconscious sh¿t going on there.
 
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Fighter86

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Really really lonely and so very sad this evening, he doesn't even take a look at or think of me, he pins for his ex girlfriend ::(:
 
Lea

Lea

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As if some sense of winter hibernation came over me. I start wondering if people have it too, I thought it was only the animals :confused:
 
Invisibleman

Invisibleman

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DeadmanWalking said:
Something bad happen? What's up?
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well a couple days ago id made this post " Im looking on facebook and seeing countless statuses about everybody getting accepted into university,with comments underneath from all their friends and family congratulating them . I havent applied anywhere yet because I dont know what I want to do and the pressures getting to me. I dont know if I can even handle university,my moms worried. I feel like a failure..."

and today I went on and its the exact same thing,this time im starting to see my friends saying they got accepted and that and im starting to get jealous and insanely aggravated.
 
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chrisjurban

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anxious. I have a lot to do. I have an english essay to do that's getting blocked. i want to finish it but i'm having a lot of trouble doing it. then there's my human sexuality essay that i finished buy i don't really like, and would like to edit it but I'm so anxious about doing it I haven't yet. then i need to complete my common application and apply to colleges. there are so many blocks on this (calls to make, essays to write, forms to fill out) that I don't know where to begin. stresssssssssssssed.
 
DeadmanWalking

DeadmanWalking

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Invisibleman said:
well a couple days ago id made this post " Im looking on facebook and seeing countless statuses about everybody getting accepted into university,with comments underneath from all their friends and family congratulating them . I havent applied anywhere yet because I dont know what I want to do and the pressures getting to me. I dont know if I can even handle university,my moms worried. I feel like a failure..."

and today I went on and its the exact same thing,this time im starting to see my friends saying they got accepted and that and im starting to get jealous and insanely aggravated.
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Hm, well, for starters, try not to compare themselves to you. You aren't them, aren't capable of being them, and don't think like they do. Instead, just be you and live to your standards. As for being lost, try different and new things and find something that you'd enjoy doing for the rest of your life. Do you have any hobbies? Explore them. Everyone moves at their own pace. Handle things as they approach them, okay?
 
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