How are you feeling?

Srijita52

Srijita52

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I'm feeling bad. All the people of my highschool are throwing a party next week and my only friend in whom I mentioned before wants me to go. But I really don't feel like going, I mean I was never close to anyone in that school, it doesn't even matter to them if I be there or not. But my friend is insisting so hard that I go, she has many friends there who won't go if she doesn't but none of them really care about me. What should I do? Would be too selfish of me if I don't go? I'm really confused?
 
MikeyC

MikeyC

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Srijita52 said:
I'm feeling bad. All the people of my highschool are throwing a party next week and my only friend in whom I mentioned before wants me to go. But I really don't feel like going, I mean I was never close to anyone in that school, it doesn't even matter to them if I be there or not. But my friend is insisting so hard that I go, she has many friends there who won't go if she doesn't but none of them really care about me. What should I do? Would be too selfish of me if I don't go? I'm really confused?
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Why does your friend want you to go so badly when she'll probably have a good time anyway? Does she know you don't like most of them?
 
EscapeArtist

EscapeArtist

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frustrated again for same reason as last time I posted... Get to sleep at a reasonable time for once after sleeping in day/awake at night pattern, then get woken up 20 minutes after falling asleep by loud family. Causes insomnia... Awake at night again. UGH!
 
MikeyC

MikeyC

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EscapeArtist said:
frustrated again for same reason as last time I posted... Get to sleep at a reasonable time for once after sleeping in day/awake at night pattern, then get woken up 20 minutes after falling asleep by loud family. Causes insomnia... Awake at night again. UGH!
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Maybe try some relaxing techniques? Stretching, controlled breathing, what-have-you. That might relax you enough to get back to sleep.

If possible, perhaps a bath (not my first, second, or tenth choice!) or some incense will make you sleepy and you can fall asleep.
 
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Blabla..

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EscapeArtist said:
frustrated again for same reason as last time I posted... Get to sleep at a reasonable time for once after sleeping in day/awake at night pattern, then get woken up 20 minutes after falling asleep by loud family. Causes insomnia... Awake at night again. UGH!
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get some earplugs , maybe ?

when i sleep at a reasonable time , i always wake up in the middle of the night at 3 am , maybe my body has to get used to it ?
 
Srijita52

Srijita52

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MikeyC said:
Why does your friend want you to go so badly when she'll probably have a good time anyway? Does she know you don't like most of them?
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She does. She also knows about my SA. But I guess she has a hard time relating cos she's a very outgoing person herself.
 
MikeyC

MikeyC

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Srijita52 said:
She does. She also knows about my SA. But I guess she has a hard time relating cos she's a very outgoing person herself.
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I understand. My mate is the same. Well, just tell her that you don't feel comfortable going and maybe she'll understand. At the very worst, she should accept your decision.
 
Srijita52

Srijita52

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MikeyC said:
I understand. My mate is the same. Well, just tell her that you don't feel comfortable going and maybe she'll understand. At the very worst, she should accept your decision.
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Yeah, I already told her that. But she got very upset & became all emotional like 'you can't even do that for me, heck of a friend you are' and all. I don't want to hurt her feelings but....
 
MikeyC

MikeyC

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Srijita52 said:
Yeah, I already told her that. But she got very upset & became all emotional like 'you can't even do that for me, heck of a friend you are' and all. I don't want to hurt her feelings but....
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Then she obviously doesn't understand the anxiety you feel. Either she really can't understand or she chooses not to understand. You might need to tell her straight-up how anxious that'll be for you, if you want to.
 
Invisibleman

Invisibleman

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Im feeling like I come to this thread too much to b!tch and complain::eek:::eek::. But honestly I feel pretty horrible,schools going to be sooooo long,an absolute grind.
 
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Vampayah88

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Confused. Frustrated. Why do we care so much? does someones opinion of you who isn't even a friend, family or you actually like or is important, really matters to you in the end? why do we torture ourselves wondering what others think of us.
 
Arthur_Dent

Arthur_Dent

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Expectant. I'm going to face my biggest fear today or tomorrow (whenever the opportunity shows up). I'm going to do it on a very unorthodox way.

The worst case scenario is that I will have something less to worry about. In the other hand, if I got delivered a cargo ship full of luck, I won't have to worry about that previous thing, but then I'll have to worry about something good, and that would be something I would be very happy to worry about.
 
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