That is lying to yourself if you say your are fine when you are not.
Personal experiences, I often use I am Fine when I am not and it causes great inner-frustration ... now. As I just buried a problem without a solution.
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That is lying to yourself if you say your are fine when you are not.
Personal experiences, I often use I am Fine when I am not and it causes great inner-frustration ... now. As I just buried a problem without a solution.
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Beatrice
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I don't know about that. I've always heard you should acknowledge you are feeling a certain way and try to understand why and do something about it. Not pretend it isn't there. Telling yourself over and over you feel great when you do not will not make you feel great.
That's good! It's silly, but just take it one day at a time.
I feel pretty good. My therapist appointment went well. She says we are going to have a 'fun session' next Monday. Apparently we aren't going to talk about anything bad.
The appointment is three hours after my appointment with the state appointed therapist for my disability claim. I told her I may die of a heart attack before then, so if I don't show, she'll know what happened.
vexatiousmind
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yucky, have a fever. I think I have sinus infection but idk.
and today is my brothers bday, and he wanted to go bowling. Now they are not going b/c of me.
and today is my brothers bday, and he wanted to go bowling. Now they are not going b/c of me.
johannes
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yucky, have a fever. I think I have sinus infection but idk.
and today is my brothers bday, and he wanted to go bowling. Now they are not going b/c of me.
ohh, did you have that checked?, i tend to get respiratory problems, but never had a sinus infection.
get well soon from that fever too!, i kind of got used to the 4 hour sleep haha
I feel like crap. Again.
MrJones
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You're not alone
I know it doesn't mean much coming from a complete stranger from the internet, but I feel the same :
:I hope you feel better soon
*hug*
And I also feel like
:
: I'm the same...Yeah, it seems like I'm going to have a funny day....
Srijita52
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Thanks for the hug!You're not alone
I know it doesn't mean much coming from a complete stranger from the internet, but I feel the same :
I hope you feel better soon
*hug*
I always feel better when I visit the forum with so many sweet people around,if only real world was like that! Hope you feel better soon too
MrJones
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Thanks for the hug!
I always feel better when I visit the forum with so many sweet people around,if only real world was like that! Hope you feel better soon too
Thanks, I guess I'm better now... anyway I'm afraid I'll remain alone.
I'm sure that there are a lot of sweet people out there, in the real world. I wonder where are they hiding XD
Phoenixx
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^ And the anxiety/depression hits. :
: It's always like this. I usually go from feeling nothing, and then just crashing and feeling depressed, and then back to being numb again.
MrJones
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:^ And the anxiety/depression hits. :
: Sorry to hear thatI'm so used of feeling numb too... I hope it'll get better soon
*hugs*
Paahi
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Im sorry to hear you are feeling this way Phoenixx, I hope it gets better.^ And the anxiety/depression hits. :
Srijita52
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Thanks, I guess I'm better now... anyway I'm afraid I'll remain alone.
I'm sure that there are a lot of sweet people out there, in the real world. I wonder where are they hiding XD
I wonder that too ;(
Phoenixx
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^ Thanks guys. I'm feeling a little better. Been trying to distract myself, get up and do something, instead of wallowing in it, which is never good.:
I'm so used of feeling numb too... I hope it'll get better soon
*hugs*
Now off to.... find something else to do.
AsTimeBurns
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Anyone else just feel like there is nowhere at all they fit in?
I wans't so bad at school, as I had a few friends and people I'd hang around with or play football with, but since then just feel out of place all the time.
- Didn't feel right at university, because everyone else seemed to quickly form into groups and I was just on my own for the whole 4 years.
- Didn't feel right at work. Tried to make conversations and such, but always felt really forced. Didn't get invited to any of the group things they did really. Even if I was standing there when they were organising it.
- Don't even really feel right at home a lot of the time.
I've tried things like joining online communities, like I'm a member of forums for books I like and things like that, and a member of a "gaming clan". But again, even though it's been years, I don't really know anyone there at all. I'll say "hello" and might get a "hello" back on a good day, but that's it. They all get on very well and find it easy to chat to one another, but whenever I try and join it it seems forced and usually get ignored.
Even in a community of people with these similar social/shyness problems it's the same.
If you've experienced this..did you ever manage to find somewhere where you felt at home? Or are you still pretty much on the outside looking in?
I wans't so bad at school, as I had a few friends and people I'd hang around with or play football with, but since then just feel out of place all the time.
- Didn't feel right at university, because everyone else seemed to quickly form into groups and I was just on my own for the whole 4 years.
- Didn't feel right at work. Tried to make conversations and such, but always felt really forced. Didn't get invited to any of the group things they did really. Even if I was standing there when they were organising it.
- Don't even really feel right at home a lot of the time.
I've tried things like joining online communities, like I'm a member of forums for books I like and things like that, and a member of a "gaming clan". But again, even though it's been years, I don't really know anyone there at all. I'll say "hello" and might get a "hello" back on a good day, but that's it. They all get on very well and find it easy to chat to one another, but whenever I try and join it it seems forced and usually get ignored.
Even in a community of people with these similar social/shyness problems it's the same.
If you've experienced this..did you ever manage to find somewhere where you felt at home? Or are you still pretty much on the outside looking in?
MrJones
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Great! The last thing you should do is nothing (like I always do >.<). You're strong
MrJones
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I've been always an outsider everywhere I go, that's why I bring music always with me, it helps me distracting, but nothing else.
I'm sure that the place where I've fitted in the best is here. I joined other comunities before (for gamers, for young people, etc.) but nothing really worked.
I'm still looking for somewhere (if possible, offline) where I feel at home...