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vexatiousmind

vexatiousmind

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Bored.
Wish I had something to do, or somewhere to go.
& my mom decided to nap in the living room, so I am confined to my room so I don't make noise, and wake her.
 
simpsons2007

simpsons2007

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pebblesdundee said:
Why not give her a month to find a place to live, and tell her she's leaving at the end of the month. That's fair on her, and you get your own space.
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^I have thought about that quite alot over the past few months. But its just something I couldn't do. I don't have it in me to be the "bad guy" and kick her out. My problem is I'm too "nice" for my own good. And where ever the ex goes my daughter will be going with her so I couldn't just kick her out.

pingu07 said:
I think settling a deal with her is what should happen. Is there any legal deal that can happen. Then she will take things seriously. I really hope things get better. Im sure it will, once this happens. Hang in there, Simpy! ::eek::
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^Thanks pingu. I'm doing my best to hang in there. I don't think I could talk to her. Most of the time I can't stand to be in the same room as her.

Sial Axetder said:
How crude, rude and inconsiderate. Only furthers my theory we are existing within a worldly society of inconsiderate and rude people.

Tell this person to take a hike. Well, hmm, depends, whose place it happens to be. Yours, their's....
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^I wish it was that easy to tell her to take a hike but it ain't. The place we live in is rented from the council and both are names are on the tenancy. So we both have equal rights to stay in the house. I'm on the council waiting list for a flat but it's going to take months and months to get a place. Can't go private too expensive.

twiggle said:
She sounds like a monster to share a roof with. How inconsiderate - not only to you, but your daughter.
The sooner your living situation is resolved the better - what's keeping you both under the same roof? I guess that there's never a quick solution to something like that but keep your held high knowing that it won't be this way forever. Seriously simpy, as soon as its resolved you'll be so much happier... I know it can take time, but just know that it WILL be resolved.
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^Thanks twiggle. Neither of us can afford to go private thats why we're still in the same house. Yeah I'll definitely be happier when its all sorted out but it's going to be quite a few months yet. I'm doing my best to keep my head up but it ain't easy at times.

Rembrandt Broam said:
I think you're right. Trying to live under the same roof as someone you used to be in a relationship is going to cause you nothing but stress. One way or another you both need to move on to live truly separate lives. I hope you find a way to work that out soon.
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^Thanks Rembrandt Broam. I'm hoping it will be sooner rather than later as well. But I'm preparing myself for a long wait to be in different houses because it will take awhile. I just glad that I know that at some point my situation will change. It might take longer than I want but it will happen.
 
coyote

coyote

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simpsons2007 said:
...But she could at least show me a bit RESPECT and wait until we're NOT living together in the same before she starts spreading her legs to anyone who shows a bit of interest in her....
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i'm sorry, I've been there, too - i know how horrible that feels

i truly wish you the ability to forgive her and get past it sooner than i have
 
simpsons2007

simpsons2007

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Srijita52 said:
A little excited.I finally exposed myself to something I truly fear.It was not that bad afterall;)
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Thats really great :D.

It always feels good to do something you fear and it turns out better than you thought. Just remember how you felt this time after doing it for the next time you have to face the same situation and know its never as bad as you think it's going to be.
 
Srijita52

Srijita52

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simpsons2007 said:
Thats really great :D.

It always feels good to do something you fear and it turns out better than you thought. Just remember how you felt this time after doing it for the next time you have to face the same situation and know its never as bad as you think it's going to be.
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Yeah,I will do that.It always seems like getting the courage to face our fears is often the hardest part but its comparatively easier once we force ourselves to go through it.
 
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