MrJones
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Of course, it's always hot in Mordor
How are you feeling?
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MrSunday
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Of course, it's always hot in Mordor
Ah, there you are, MrJones! I look forward to scraping you off my immaculate nails! Uwee hee hee hee!
MrJones
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MrSunday
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At first I was like wtf
Then I googled it
Now I'm still like wtf
jk
No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no...this is no joke.
To challenge me is a direct challenge to the goddess and the devil! True beauty is immortal. Look at me. Right now, I am flawless. Now...
Do you like your meat rare? Or do you like it charbroiled? Let me know, and I'll cook you up just as ordered! Uwee hee hee hee!
KiaKaha
Banned
Unpopular and unimportant.
I always have this nagging feeling that I am simply just not welcome. Tolerable - but not someone that people are particularly fussed about. Just some guy - thats around... take it or leave it. I feel that people dont really care about me, or know me - like they arent comfortable engaging with me.
I wish I knew the secret of how to get people to warm up to me, but most people I feel dont really like me all that much. At least... when they actually start to get to know me. Not included, I make people feel uncomfortable with my presence. I can see it.
I always have this nagging feeling that I am simply just not welcome. Tolerable - but not someone that people are particularly fussed about. Just some guy - thats around... take it or leave it. I feel that people dont really care about me, or know me - like they arent comfortable engaging with me.
I wish I knew the secret of how to get people to warm up to me, but most people I feel dont really like me all that much. At least... when they actually start to get to know me. Not included, I make people feel uncomfortable with my presence. I can see it.
DeadmanWalking
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To get people to warm up to you, you have to show them your "warmness". Don't be afraid to let them get close, both physically and spiritually, to you
. Believe that you are a person worth getting to know (because you are) and exude positivity.As for your presence, well, it kinda should be a "take it or leave it" thing. Be there, be friendly, and if someone doesn't like you then they can either put up with it or leave. I'm pretty sure that people enjoy your presence; after all, we do
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KiaKaha
Banned
I dont know man - I can just sense that people arent really into me all that much. I am like a cop - no one wants anything to do with me unless I am required for something.
I dont incur desire to be known. No one ever says hey just thinking of you, want to catch up? I can sense awkwardness and reservation around my presence. Everyone seems so smart - I just feel like an unintelligent fool who has everything wrong about everything...also a failure at life.
But thanks. I appreciate the kind words anyway. I am getting some counselling tomorrow.
I dont incur desire to be known. No one ever says hey just thinking of you, want to catch up? I can sense awkwardness and reservation around my presence. Everyone seems so smart - I just feel like an unintelligent fool who has everything wrong about everything...also a failure at life.
But thanks. I appreciate the kind words anyway. I am getting some counselling tomorrow.
DeadmanWalking
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These feelings may be your "darkness" talking. Maybe people are just scared of you and feel that you don't want to get to know them. Don't be so negative about yourself; people tend to avoid negativity. Show them your positivity (which I know is there)
. But it's good that you're getting therapy. Good luck and be as open as you possibly can!
KiaKaha
Banned
Oh I can be positive - the reason I am not so much is because I dont feel like I am important. Its hard to explain and I could dominate this thread for the next couple of days...but I wont. I just see how people respond to others, and then I compare it by seeing how people respond and react to me. Its a big difference...and makes me wonder why I cant get that kind of acceptance and warmth from others.
But I will work on it. Thanks.
But I will work on it. Thanks.
Phoenixx
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Exhausted. I had a long day... Actually I just had a really long weekend. I think I'm just going to be lazy all day tomorrow, because I can.
Oh, but I actually went fishing this evening for once. I haven't gone fishing in.. probably a couple years at least? I only caught a catfish though, but it was still fun. The pond I was at was really nice. I didn't even think to bring my camera, so I took a couple shots with my phone. (I apologize for the somewhat crappy quality)
I think I'm just going to be lazy all day tomorrow, because I can.Oh, but I actually went fishing this evening for once. I haven't gone fishing in.. probably a couple years at least? I only caught a catfish though, but it was still fun. The pond I was at was really nice. I didn't even think to bring my camera, so I took a couple shots with my phone. (I apologize for the somewhat crappy quality)
Srijita52
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Very beautiful photos Phoenixx.
I'm sorry Kia, I feel the same. You're very important to me, I hope people around you start appreciating you too.
Srijita52
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I'm sorry. Maybe you can try to engage into their conversations and show that you're interested?
Opaline
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Feel like I won't be able to fall asleep right away. I am so upset.
The situation with my coworker has been eating away at me since it happened the other night. I am dreading going to work in a few hours' time, I feel like I want to just quit. Which is a really dumb thing to do over a coworker being a little bit of a jerk, so I'm not going to. But I just don't feel like I can muster up the courage/energy required to stand my ground if/when he tries to treat me that way again.
And I'm dreading the fact that as soon as he comes in to work I am going to be hyper-aware of it, and feeling bitter the whole time. I don't want to, but when I tell myself things to make me feel better or view it from a different perspective, it doesn't really work. I'm not sure what else to do. I am filled with rage towards him. He's acting like a high schooler, and I hated high school and don't want to deal with more of the crap I dealt with there. I was treated that way all the time and it tormented me, and I simply cannot take being made to feel like a piece of **** again. I can't take it.
If I keep getting treated this way I am going to quit, and end up jobless and broke again.
I feel so horrible, so so so so horrible. I wish I would just snap and lose my mind so I don't have to be aware of the pain anymore. I feel trapped.
The situation with my coworker has been eating away at me since it happened the other night. I am dreading going to work in a few hours' time, I feel like I want to just quit. Which is a really dumb thing to do over a coworker being a little bit of a jerk, so I'm not going to. But I just don't feel like I can muster up the courage/energy required to stand my ground if/when he tries to treat me that way again.
And I'm dreading the fact that as soon as he comes in to work I am going to be hyper-aware of it, and feeling bitter the whole time. I don't want to, but when I tell myself things to make me feel better or view it from a different perspective, it doesn't really work. I'm not sure what else to do. I am filled with rage towards him. He's acting like a high schooler, and I hated high school and don't want to deal with more of the crap I dealt with there. I was treated that way all the time and it tormented me, and I simply cannot take being made to feel like a piece of **** again. I can't take it.
If I keep getting treated this way I am going to quit, and end up jobless and broke again.
I feel so horrible, so so so so horrible. I wish I would just snap and lose my mind so I don't have to be aware of the pain anymore. I feel trapped.
DeadmanWalking
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Perhaps you could talk to your supervisor about it and ask if you can either get a new shift or get him moved. The only other option I can think of is to stand up for yourself, even if you're terrified. (I hope that) he isn't so stupid as to fight you in public because that would only yield a painful and miserable future for him.
bcsr
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Very sorry to hear that, but it isn't high school anymore, there are actual consequences for people who are abusive/harassing. I obviously don't know what happened, but if this coworker was out of line, you need to talk to HR / management.
Vampayah88
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Repulsed....I don't want to do this. hate doing it.
hate doing it.
MikeyC
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What's wrong?Repulsed....I don't want to do this.