Getting Laid Before Getting Old
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talisman
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Yeah, try and start having sex as soon as possible. Obviously don't take risks or don't do it with people you don't find attractive, but there's no benefit to waiting. The last thing you want to do is end up in your mid 20s still a virgin. It truely is depressing and soul destroying.
People who tell you sex doesn't matter are usually those who did it loads when they're young or have no significant interest in sex to begin with. I have no idea how to get sex though, so can't help there.
People who tell you sex doesn't matter are usually those who did it loads when they're young or have no significant interest in sex to begin with. I have no idea how to get sex though, so can't help there.
Iseesky
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Well, I don't have such a strict deadline for losing my virginity! But, I am a virgin, and would like to lose it sooner rather than later.
But, why rush into things? 20 isn't old. At least, I don't think it is! I'm 19 and while I feel a bit of pressure, I'm not going to give myself to any random Joe just for the hell of it! If you want to, that's your choice. I can't tell you what you should or shouldn't do. But, why not wait until you're in a nice, loving relationship first?
I've never had a boyfriend. I've only been on one date which turned out horrible and I still have a bad taste in my mouth from the 'kiss.' Ew. There's nothing worse than a guy who tries to act all sweet and romantic only to turn out to be a horndog at the end of the FIRST date! I would have had so much more respect for him if he just flat out said he wanted to have sex with me...Strangely enough. Anyway, rant. I don't think you should do it just to do it your first time. That's my opinion!
But, why rush into things? 20 isn't old. At least, I don't think it is! I'm 19 and while I feel a bit of pressure, I'm not going to give myself to any random Joe just for the hell of it! If you want to, that's your choice. I can't tell you what you should or shouldn't do. But, why not wait until you're in a nice, loving relationship first?
I've never had a boyfriend. I've only been on one date which turned out horrible and I still have a bad taste in my mouth from the 'kiss.' Ew. There's nothing worse than a guy who tries to act all sweet and romantic only to turn out to be a horndog at the end of the FIRST date! I would have had so much more respect for him if he just flat out said he wanted to have sex with me...Strangely enough. Anyway, rant. I don't think you should do it just to do it your first time. That's my opinion!
I think its been like 2-3 weeks since this thread started. Whether she did it or not, we will never know. If she did, hopefully she isn't regretting anything. If not, then good. But for your information; guys who are serious about a relationship tries to look for girls who havn't gave in yet. I guess you can say its considered an attraction nowadays.
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My bad, its a dude. Disregard my posts; unless your female and horny.
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Felgen
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I feel I need to find a stable girlfriend, get married and have kids while it's still possible. Allthough technically not a virgin, it bothers me very much that I've never been in a genuine relationship or felt true love. If you're planning on getting laid just for the sake of it, get drunk and go after drunk chicks--but make sure it's not the most confident girls.
Even after you get laid, you'll still feel the loneliness and emptiness of not having a significant other.
WearyChild
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I understand your stress to get er done before 20 and I used to think very similarly. I'm 19 now myself and although I still want to loose it sooner rather then later I've learned to be patient. You don't want to go off and bang any random person do you. How I'm figuring it is it will happen when it happens you just got to pray that comes before you get old and wrinkly.
He's annoying. It's entrapment, I say.
Helmaninquiel
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That's ok I'm 19 and I'm still a virgin. I mean maybe it mean's a little bit different because I'm a woman.... actually no it's really not that different now a days because if you don't lose it by ****ing 15 your an out cast. Anyways I wouldn't worry about it despite what I said there is plenty of sluts to go around.
I'm just not keen on the idea of sleeping with just anyone.
iamthenra
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No offense, and I don't mean to "pick" on you, but a post like this makes me depressed....
FountainandFairfax
in a VAN down by the RIVER
It's been a while for me, but the whole "waiting for someone special" thing is getting kind of ridiculous.
No offense to anyone else, but I have to be realistic here. The longer I wait, the more uncomfortable I become around women again, thus making the chances of finding someone special less and less likely.
Even if I did meet someone amazing right now, I'd be so anxious around her for lack of experience that I'd never be able to establish anything romantic. It would be a joke, first impressions are huge and I'd be an absolute mess.
I gotta get rid of this hopeless-romantic mentality I have that true love will come walking into my life no matter what my circumstances. It's insanity. I have to start taking some real steps towards getting better and living again.
How are you going to find someone if you can't even get out and look?
No offense to anyone else, but I have to be realistic here. The longer I wait, the more uncomfortable I become around women again, thus making the chances of finding someone special less and less likely.
Even if I did meet someone amazing right now, I'd be so anxious around her for lack of experience that I'd never be able to establish anything romantic. It would be a joke, first impressions are huge and I'd be an absolute mess.
I gotta get rid of this hopeless-romantic mentality I have that true love will come walking into my life no matter what my circumstances. It's insanity. I have to start taking some real steps towards getting better and living again.
How are you going to find someone if you can't even get out and look?
Wherever the wind blows
Well, no, I don't feel this way. I just have a question to ask? Do you really honestly think this will do anything? I mean you might feel better for a while, but in the end what does it get you? If you find someone for one night, out of some random opportunity and happen to take it, that doesn't necessarily mean anything. You'll probably never see them again. And then, oh so what it happened once, and now you're okay you can't complain? I can assure you won't feel too great afterwards. I mean do whatever you want, and good luck, just try to think realistically here!
Well, no, I don't feel this way. I just have a question to ask? Do you really honestly think this will do anything? I mean you might feel better for a while, but in the end what does it get you? If you find someone for one night, out of some random opportunity and happen to take it, that doesn't necessarily mean anything. You'll probably never see them again. And then, oh so what it happened once, and now you're okay you can't complain? I can assure you won't feel too great afterwards. I mean do whatever you want, and good luck, just try to think realistically here!
LycraPantiies92
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Yeah, try and start having sex as soon as possible. Obviously don't take risks or don't do it with people you don't find attractive, but there's no benefit to waiting. The last thing you want to do is end up in your mid 20s still a virgin. It truely is depressing and soul destroying.
People who tell you sex doesn't matter are usually those who did it loads when they're young or have no significant interest in sex to begin with. I have no idea how to get sex though, so can't help there.
I don't ever want to have......that thing. Ever. Simple as. All i want is for 1 person in this world to like me.
I'm a disgusting person though and i disgust myself. So if i looked at myself as another person would i? Naw.
Luke1993
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hmm well I am 16 so many say I have plenty of time but I have a feeling nobody will ever like me to be in a relationship. I don't want to end up like my uncle who's nearing 50 and has never had a relationship or sex his whole life. If worst comes to worst I'll get a prostitute.
Afraid to die alone
Member
I'm 21 and still a virgin. I guess I'm "old." The sad thing is college is supposed to be the best opportunity to get a girlfriend. Women aren't interested in me. I'm too shy and not attractive enough. Chances are I'll die a virgin. What's even worse than dying a virgin is dying without a spouse. I want more than sex; I want a life partner, someone to cuddle with at night. I just want to be loved. Nights are the worst, lying in bed without anyone to hold you.
DanFC
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You have just voiced everything in my head. Well, not everything, but everything pertaining to this discussion.
beware of what you're doing: I just got the most miserable, the worst experience in my life ever !!!! just read my post "My first time sex next week"
think about it before doing it