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Do you think you're ugly?

Started by Argamemnon · May 21, 2009 · 586 replies

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PipsMcClawski said: ↑
Apparently not to children. The sad thing is nobody wanted to be my friend anymore after that rumor got around. Its not like I was gonna eat them too. Well not all of them at least.

that reminds me back in like 4th grade, people had spread rumors around that I was jamaican (why?). it could of been a stigma (why?) but I tried to make it work for me, which I did in a way, ridiculously enough.
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IGotSeoul said: ↑
that reminds me back in like 4th grade, people had spread rumors around that I was jamaican (why?). it could of been a stigma (why?) but I tried to make it work for me, which I did in a way, ridiculously enough.

Quoting Moe from the Simpsons "And this is why we should hate kids" 🙄
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Phoenixx said: ↑
^ Lemurs are so cute and fuzzy. 😀

I'm not a huge fan of your uncle King Julien though. I mean, he can be funny and all, but he can get pretty annoying.

But you did happen to inherit your dance moves from him, right? 😉

Actually John Travolta taught me. Ergo:



But then I have dorky hair and that weird smile as in my avatar... =D

TO ALL -

Look - when you don't feel good about yourself, full of anxiety and these issues load themselves on our backs - we cannot be the best judge of how we view ourselves; it goes beyond the physical what we see. I've seen many ppl here very beautiful who think they're ugly... we can't be perfectionist either everyone has "flaws" we can't harp too much on them we're our own most harsh critics - nor can we view how we BELIEVE others perceive us for that perception becomes skewed as well.

I have extruded/stuck out ears that's plagued me a lot of my life early on - still does off and on - but I've not or tried not to let it hold me back - or other issues... we all have things we wish we'd have "better". But gotta focus on what's GOOD and that's A LOT - we just get blinded by seeing our own self-perceived faults or bad or "ugliness"... 😉
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MaliceInWickedland said: ↑
People often tell me that I'm a cute girl but I always find myself cringing when I look into the mirror and have a difficult time figuring out what it is about me that's "cute". I don't know why, I just keep finding new flaws about myself no matter how many physical changes I undergo.
Haha, it's just your face?
I agree with that last part. If it's not my weight I'm worried about, it's my eyes, or face, or.. just everything. I think I get most self-concious when I'm around people who intimidate me though.
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Dead_on_Arrival said: ↑
Sorry but 'Fat'. You have used 3 pics for your avatar so far and in none of them have you looked even remotely fat. And anyway, the best looking women in the world are not skinny. I would prefer to see a size 12/14 woman than a size 6 or 8 any day of the week.


I guess you're an exception then.
And yeah, I'm a 12, which means I'm fat apparentally.
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cesgrandsyeux said: ↑
I guess you're an exception then.
And yeah, I'm a 12, which means I'm fat apparentally.

You don't look it so it obviously suits you.

And there's your compliment for the day for the other thread.😀
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Dead_on_Arrival said: ↑
You don't look it so it obviously suits you.

And there's your compliment for the day for the other thread.😀

Huh? I don't look it so therefore...it suits me? COnfused :S
Oh and sorry,I only just saw this,haha.
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ugh yes I can't leave the house because I HATE my face >.<
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I can't get over what those two (well it was more) girls said about me. It's that word...it's the only thing that can get to me. Anything else I can laugh off, including creepy. Does anyone have any ideas as to how I can get over what they said, or even better, perhaps not be affected by that word entirely?

It seems everyone in my year at school is talking about the incident on Friday, it feels like they're all mocking and ridiculing me.
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Hell no, i love the way i look 😀
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Ugly or not, that shouldn't matter.

Its all about your inner-self, well it should be!
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Yes I do. And whats worse is that I think being attractive is extremely important. Sucks to be me.
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Unfortunately yes! Even though I may be chubby right now and have a lot of face fat, I don't think that I'd be good looking even if I lost weight. My face just doesn't have any redeemable features at all. I mean, just by bone structure I've already failed :😛: I've inherited my mom's head shape and my side view shots are just worth vomiting over xD I have eyes, a sorta flat sorta fat nose, and what I hate most of all, my lips. They're just small and shaped into a smug. I think the lower part of my face is probably the most ugliest part next to my head shape.
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Me in the mirror

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I must be ugly, been single my whole adult life, well either I'm ugly or it's due to me having social phobia 😉 lol
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Don't care about that issue. Anxiety is far a bigger problem.

Yeah i would prefer be uglier (not much) and don't had this friend calles SP...
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yesss yes, I sure do, It is one of the main things which i have on mind.
I don't feel pretty, to be honest I feel suffering by ugliness too, but still I try to think about other stuff to ignore my feelings about myself.

Still, I don't feel happy if I look into the mirror, but It is based on my skinny appearance (too slim arms, face, I hate it) and my tired sleepy face.

Maybe I just overate being ugly, but hey.. It's what I see, but still I would love to see the difference, because people find me attractive, I can't imagine..

Also people tell me I'm ugly and weird a lot, but today my grandmother said:
You don't live, nope. If I would tell you, your clothes are stupid and you look stupid, you would feel so affected, but you should just say ''Hey just let me be me, and then I 'm alright''

That is a good point and I'll keep in mind.

Still hard, but good for practice. each day.
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Now the time has been changed. Every have the attention to be satisfied in every respect either in respect of the health, either in respect of the beauty.
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yes always have even though people tell me im not
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Yes. Maybe not "ugly", but I certainly think I am very plain and quite unattractive.

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