davemason2k
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I'm reading this self help book and the author says it's very important to smile at people, because it allows others to relax around you. I think this is part of my problem. My natural face expression is pretty much a frown and I bet that's why people rarely approach me. My sister has the same problem. She's said a few times that people would ask her "if she was ok?" or something because she was looking grumpy. In fact, she was happy as could be. So, today when I went to the store, I practiced smiling at people. Not a big grin, but a little lip smile just to try it out. I don't know if it will do anything major, but it's better than looking serious and mean like I imagine I do. Anyways, has anyone tried this before? Do you think there is truth to what the author of this book said? I'm really trying to break out of my bubble and try to open up to people. Before I started therapy and meds, I would just walk around avoiding eye contact with a serious look on my face. Now that I'm on medication and less stressed out and suffer no more panic attacks, I really want to take chances and allow people to warm up to me.