lyricalliaisons
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Yes, because I have a mental illness. That makes me mentally ill. There's nothing wrong with it. Some people's brains are just wired differently than others.
Yes, because I have a mental illness. That makes me mentally ill. There's nothing wrong with it. Some people's brains are just wired differently than others.
Mentally ill? Goodness no. Even if it is recognised as the right term, it's a very negative-sounding one.
When I think of an illness, I think of the sort of thing that is cured by taking it easy, getting a little more sleep perhaps, and taking medication - that is not how to go about dealing with social anxiety in the long-term. There's no room for negativity in my life any more. I don't know what to call it if not an illness, so I don't call it anything - it's just social anxiety, it's not a mental anything to me. Something that I'll cast aside with determination, and self-improvement, not with bed rest, extra layers and a prescription of antibiotics.
Psychologists can call it whatever they want. As far as I'm concerned, it's a "quirk" - and that sounds much more pleasant.
No and i never will.
I see mental illness as the opposite of mental healthiness and that there are degrees within it - severe, mild, temporary, permanent - and I attach no stigma to it.
Stigma and discrimination
"Mental illness attracts less empathy and more distrust than other forms of illness. People may consciously or unconsciously blame the people with mental illness for their condition, implying a character flaw rather than a disorder. Another misconception is that mental illness is a "life sentence" with no chance of recovery. Some people believe that those with mental illness are unable to contribute to society: that they cannot work, study, be good parents, or take on other roles. In fact, the experience of mental illness varies widely in terms of symptoms, treatment and life impact. Some people experience only a single episode. Others have an illness in which episodes recur and they need ongoing management and treatment, but some will be well much of the time.
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^ Exactly this.It may just be the terminology, but I don't consider myself mentally ill. I don't think there is anything inherently "wrong" with my mental functioning. Maybe someone on the outside looking in would disagree, but it doesn't feel like that to me so I don't consider myself mentally ill.
What makes a person "mentally ill" is defined by society, and I don't do any of the behaviors or cognitions of a mentally ill person based on what I have been socialized to believe is mentally ill. The only times I ever feel like I am mentally ill is when I talk to myself uncontrollably, or when I get fixated on certain thoughts. In general though, I don't consider myself mentally ill.
I don't have a specific label for what I am, but cowardly and pathetic come to mind. My lack of inhibition and motivation makes me boring, or depressed maybe. A perfectionist who is afraid to make a mistake. Someone who has room for improvement.
i drink when i can, eat rubbish food, masturbate lots, hit myself and punch walls, i don't wash myself, etc... i even used to eat all the skin from around my finger nails at one point.
Wikipedia said:A mental disorder or mental illness is a psychological or behavioral pattern generally associated with subjective distress or disability that occurs in an individual, and which is not a part of normal development or culture.