The last few months since I joined this forum, my opinions on love have been changed to something much darker and less positive.
Love was initially designed to be a motivational stimulate intended for reproductive purposes, but now, I think it's transformed itself into a weapon used to destroy humanity.
I've just looked at all of the people getting hurt by this, my friends, people in my family, and this kind of stuff even pops up in the news.
So what is love? Just an evil illusion that plagues people of all ages. And the worst part? Most of the single people don't even have a choice on whether or not they want to have love or not.
We deserve to choose for ourselves, and we deserve to be able to stop wanting love, and to get rid of being depressed because we're single.
I don't know how it is with most people here, but in my opinion, I decided to give up the dating game because its too stressful, it's too depressing, and there wasn't one girl out there who wanted to be with me.
So its very apparent that if you didn't get to have love in the past, then its not up to you at all. We can't control other people, and if you didn't get one lover in the past, and you're in your mid 20's, then you'll never find love.
But you know what? Who cares?! If you constantly get rejected, then you probably deserve better than most people here on Earth. And if you're going to be single forever, then that probably means that there is nobody here in the universe that's good enough or deserving of you.
That's the way I see it, if you're depressed from being single, and you can't find one person that wants to be with you, then being in a relationship can't solve anything because they're not going to do one good thing for you.
Unless you want to be a parent, don't go ahead and find love. Believe me, you're just adding some stupid insignificant job (that doesn't pay any money) to your life.
Somebody said giving up is for losers? No, no, not at all. Giving up at something like this is for sane people who aren't stupid!
I'm not stupid, and I doubt anyone else here is stupid. Kiwong was lucky enough to be able to destroy his need for love (if it existed, that is), so if he can do it, why can't we?
I'm 20, I'm alive, I didn't have one girlfriend, one kiss, one date, or anything like that, and I am still alive, and still breathing. I can still walk, talk, type, think, write, create, read, and live.
All of you who posted in this thread will survive being single. You know what the real disease that needs to be cured is?
Wanting love, because that will kill you and eat you alive. It made me depressed, and it made me almost want to commit suicide when I realized that being single forever is something determined before your parents are even born.
What does that mean? It's not up to you, me, or anyone.
It's obvious that there are more important, and more significant things in life. I wanted to have love because I couldn't control the need. It operated on its own, I didn't even put any thought into it. But I'm over it now, and I don't care anymore.
There's more to life than love, and love is just an evil illusion that doesn't help anyone or anything anymore.
It's not what is was intended to be, all it is now is just rejection, and that's all its ever going to be in the future.
So you know what? Give up on love, throw that concept away, and find something better to do. It's not worth the energy, money, effort, or any of that!
I'm fine the way I am now with my life, I don't need a soul-mate, I'll never have one, and I don't care.
I hope everyone here gets off of this stupid little dating game, and gets on the road to a happier, more fufilling life. Just because you're somebody who's going to be a single virgin forever doesn't mean you're a loser with no life, it means you got a brain in your head and you're lucky.
Don't throw away being single, don't throw away you're virginity. It's obvious that you people deserve better than searching endlessly for somebody who will instantly reject you or will practically dump you in the trash can.
Don't be depressed because you're single. It's pointless, just like the useless scrap pile called the "dating world".