Bad Date Stories

[SM1010]

Not really a bad date story but..

I met up for a drink with this girl from an online dating site. She seemed pretty cool and attractive but after not too long she suggested we play one of those games they have on those bar computer screens that was right next to us.

Every game she picked had to do with naked women or men, so we spent the next 30 minutes playing pornographic computer games lol. The kind where you have to find the differences between the same picture of a naked woman or dude.

It was really awkward but kind of cool at the same time (most of the games involved solely naked women which was good). I really didn't know what to think about her after that first date haha.

 

[coyote]

we passed notes in chemistry class
she was blonde and beautiful
and she liked me, apparently
and someone suggested i ask her out
the spring dance was coming up
but i didn't have a car
and she was out of my league
but she liked me, apparently
so i managed to get the courage somehow
and then arranged with a friend
to double-date with him
i bought a corsage and everything
we went out to dinner
and then to the dance
and then parked in a secluded spot
for what seemed like hours...
she liked me, apparently :]
the next monday, in chemistry class
she didn't pass my note back
and i found out she was going steady
with another guy
he was a cowboy
one of the cool kids
i thought she liked me
apparently not :[
years later i found out
that she only went out with me
to make the cowboy jealous
i don't even remember her name

 

[MikeyC]

^ Damn, that's rough, dude. ::

 

[Divine]

oh the stories i could tell....2 really stand out. i had a date with one girl several years ago where she just bailed on me in mid-date. we met at the movie theater. all i did was be nice to her, i paid for her movie ticket too. i kept talking to her, but later she was like i gotta go, then took off.
more recently i met up with a girl i used to go to school with. i hadnt seen her in a long time. we were facebook friends so i contacted her and asked her to meet up for coffee. i waited 3 weeks until she got time to meet up. then we finally met at starbucks. she seemed really excited about meeting me again. the conversation seemed to go good at first, then she asked about my life. i told her im in school and my only job is my online business. i dont know why i chose to be honest, i guess i should have lied and showed my pockets full of cash. then i asked her to go out with me and she said she didnt know if she will have time. (blow off).
i thought that she, being a more down to earth person, would have at least given me a chance but apparently im not good enough for her. she ignored all of my texts and calls after that. i felt so stupid for even asking her to meet me.

those 2 were the most humiliating.

If they don't accept you for who you are and what you do, then they aren't worth it. Their loss, I wouldn't fret about it. And honesty is always great, you don't want to start any type of relationship off with a lie.

 

[Srijita52]

we passed notes in chemistry class
she was blonde and beautiful
and she liked me, apparently
and someone suggested i ask her out
the spring dance was coming up
but i didn't have a car
and she was out of my league
but she liked me, apparently
so i managed to get the courage somehow
and then arranged with a friend
to double-date with him
i bought a corsage and everything
we went out to dinner
and then to the dance
and then parked in a secluded spot
for what seemed like hours...
she liked me, apparently :]
the next monday, in chemistry class
she didn't pass my note back
and i found out she was going steady
with another guy
he was a cowboy
one of the cool kids
i thought she liked me
apparently not :[
years later i found out
that she only went out with me
to make the cowboy jealous
i don't even remember her name

That sucks.

I have a bad story concerning a guy I knew whilst at uni. He and I were in the same tutorials and we did some group work together. He asked me why I didn't have a bf, and forced me to justify why because I said I didn't want to. He later asked if I wanted to watch a movie, just as friends. Prior to this, we would talk at uni and he would ring me up a lot and chat about stuff, as well as talk on messenger. He tried to pick something off my face once and I was really offended that he wanted to touch my face, instead of just telling me where the flint/smudge/whatever was so I could get it off myself.

I agreed because he said just as friends. When I payed for my own ticket he looked hesitant and awkward. He wasn't talkative during the movie, even though he usually talks a lot. I felt awkward and ended up walking around a bit where I lived and then we walked to my doorstep, but it seemed he expected that we would go and eat. He seemed to wait a bit on the doorstep whilst I turned to go in. I don't get it, could you guys tell me if he was just being weird or was he trying to test me and perhaps go about it like he wanted to be more than friends?

I was really not interested in him and even being friends with him was odd for me because I didn't feel comfortable in his presence. He could be said to be a nice guy, but it just didn't seem genuine.

I agree with everyone. Seems like he wanted to date you, but didn't know what to do but if you weren't interested its good that it didn't go beyond that.

 

[Kiwong]

A girl tried to steal my car and leave me stranded.

It wasn't really a date I drove them to bar night.

I always chose the wrong girls, I was a fool.

 

[Ransfordrowe]

I have only been on about four dates in my life and Im in my thirties.Strangely all of them went okay and the person seemed to enjoy them as much as me but second dates usually did not happen.It was quite frustrasting to be honest.

 

[drganon]

I've never been on a date, but in the unlikely event I do somehow trick a girl into going out on a date with me, I'll post how bad it went.