iamthenra
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That is so awesome! Take one for the team!
I can honestly say I am jealous, and very envious of you both.
Are you a virgin?
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That is so awesome! Take one for the team!
I can honestly say I am jealous, and very envious of you both.
ShyCanuck
Active member
Okay.... I have heard this many times from others who HAVE SA and can still have sex...??? If you can't have a gf/bf then how can you get past the SA to have sex? Just very curious??? Because I also have a very HIGH sex drive, but there is NO WAY I can get past the SA to ever engage in a sexual act, approach a stranger or friend, or ask a girl out on a date... You must not have acute SA?
Simply put, you don't. Quiet endurance. Depersonalization, etc. If you can get past the initial introduction though, it's pretty easy. Usually there's very little talking, although if the other person is nervous they might talk alot. There's been more then one occasion where I set something up with someone and then stood them up because I simply couldn't get past the anxiety.
DeadHead
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...Marry me? lol
Anywho I lost my virginity at the age of 15. My boyfriend who I had been dating for 2 days decided to show me some porn he found in his stepdads room. It went like this....
Nick: Wanna do what they're doing?
Brittany: I guess so
Brittany: Ow
The End
HOW ROMANTICCCCC...
johnny 85
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...Marry me? lol
Anywho I lost my virginity at the age of 15. My boyfriend who I had been dating for 2 days decided to show me some porn he found in his stepdads room. It went like this....
Nick: Wanna do what they're doing?
Brittany: I guess so
Brittany: Ow
The End
HOW ROMANTICCCCC...
lmao, ur posts crack me up !!
VirgoBlues
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no I am not.
Stone_cold_bush
New member
I'm 18, still a virgin, and I'm very proud of it.
Felgen
Well-known member
Not a virgin. I still feel miserable for never having been in a relationship, though. Sex is never as big of a deal as you expect it to be, but don't tell a girl you're going out with that you're a virgin before you've been dating for a while. Girls are unfortunately turned off by inexperience.
Also, one night stands don't cure loneliness. Just my two cents...
Also, one night stands don't cure loneliness. Just my two cents...
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Johno
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24 and a virgin, but I'm currently in my first relationship and she's also a virgin. We've been taking it slow, we've done pretty much done everything except for vaginal penetration. She just started taking birth control pills so we should both be losing our virginities in the next couple of weeks.
If it can happen to me it can happen to anyone.
Listen to me..... I would question your partner's virginity. Girl's love to say that stuff..... I doubt she is a virgin....
If it can happen to me it can happen to anyone.
Listen to me..... I would question your partner's virginity. Girl's love to say that stuff..... I doubt she is a virgin....
goldenholds
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Yes, 37 and counting.
Used to bother me a lot, but a while ago I practiced a year of celibacy. Might sound strange to practice celibacy when you cannot have sex anyhow, but I decided to do it to take control of things, and decided that during that year I would not have sex even if I had the chance and was able. It also helped with the anxiousness because I knew I was not going to have to do anything to have sex anyway, so I wasn't as scared around women. And if I got into a situation where I was expected to make a move, I could just tell them that I was practicing celibacy and I would have an easy excuse. Easier than explaining the anxiousness anyhow. I didn't really talk to many women, but at least I could be polite with the cute girl at the checkout. Now it’s my decision not to have sex instead of feeling like a complete loser for not being able. Sounds odd but it helped a lot.
Used to bother me a lot, but a while ago I practiced a year of celibacy. Might sound strange to practice celibacy when you cannot have sex anyhow, but I decided to do it to take control of things, and decided that during that year I would not have sex even if I had the chance and was able. It also helped with the anxiousness because I knew I was not going to have to do anything to have sex anyway, so I wasn't as scared around women. And if I got into a situation where I was expected to make a move, I could just tell them that I was practicing celibacy and I would have an easy excuse. Easier than explaining the anxiousness anyhow. I didn't really talk to many women, but at least I could be polite with the cute girl at the checkout.
Now it’s my decision not to have sex instead of feeling like a complete loser for not being able. Sounds odd but it helped a lot.
While I'm sure it's not true of all girls, I've known girls who didn't want to have sex with a guy after they found out he was a virgin. Maybe figure the guy is going to make a big deal out of it and obsess on them?
And on the other side, it seems that a lot of girls are more willing to engage in a fling with a guy if they know he's slept around a lot (because AIDS is a myth I guess). I can remember one girl telling me that she did this guy who was always talking about boinking all sorts of women even though he was married, and after they did it he admitted it was the first time he'd ever cheated on his wife. She was pissed and said she never would have if she'd known that.
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userremoved
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Well I would assume that if a girl is looking for a "good time" in bed then of course she wont want a virgin man, he wont have the experience to do anything good. Also if a person is a virgin too long people might think there's something wrong with them on the inside, which I can understandably see why that would scare them away.
Afraid to die alone
Member
Yes. I don't think I'll be losing my virginity any time soon based on how women interact with me.
vydelia
Member
yes, and im 17 and really want to loose it but too shy to meet anyone:
dont rush it
iamthenra
Well-known member
Yeah... EXACTLY!!! 41 is way too damn old!
WearyChild
Well-known member
At my whopping 19 years of life yes I am a virgin, and although some days are a bit lonelier then others **** relationships. Although really I should focus on getting my first kiss first.