Are you a virgin?

Are you a virgin?

  • Yes

    Votes: 349 63.1%

  • No

    Votes: 204 36.9%
  • Total voters
    553
SilverRain

SilverRain

Active member
Yes and I probably always will be. I'm not fond of the pessimism, but I haven't even had a partner yet and in all honesty there are better fish in the sea than myself.
Perhaps sometime in the future I'll meet "Mr. Right" and I certainly haven't closed my mind to that possibility, but thanks to my genophobia he'd have to be okay without any sexual contact in our relationship and I wouldn't expect anyone to be willing to sacrifice that for my sake. I'd take a good lifelong friend over a sexual partner myself. ::eek::
 
JamesSmith

JamesSmith

Well-known member
Jay C said:
No,

I guess nowadays with so many dating websites, it became very easy for shy people to date and have sex...find a dating website, post your best pictures, talk on skype for a while so you can know a little about the other person and become a little more intimate before the first actual date...
You dont really have to talk about your problems (like shyness or if you dont have a job- well, thats what I do), after you date a few times and see if theres any future than you can open yourself up...
Hope that helps anybody in anyway...
cheers
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Considering I never go out, this would be the only way i could ever have sex. The problem is these dating websites are filled with tons of ugly people. I refuse to lower my standards, so I'm not sure if I'll be able to find someone. Yes, I am a virgin at 26 yrs of age. It used to bother me, now I just focus on enjoying my day and try not to think about women that much. I wouldn't be heterosexual guy if I said I don't think about women occasionally and wonder if I'll ever have sex or get married.
 
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userremoved

Guest
Felgen said:
Me neither. I want to take someone's virginity one day, though... Too bad there aren't many virgin girls who've graduated from high school.
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I was told by a friend it was quite the unpleasant experience. He sore an oath to never take a girls virginity again lol. I was like "Umm ok? Thanks for sharing that with me man.".
 
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bangdrum

Active member
I'm not, but I didn't particularly enjoy the experience with the one guy (my "boyfriend" for almost a year) I've had sex with.

I agreed to do it mostly because I felt it would be easier in the future if I didn't have to worry about being a 25+ year old virgin anymore, and because he seemed willing to accept me as I was, and he wasn't judging so I got to be OK with taking my clothes off in front of him and all that. (For the record, he had his own anxiety issues that he denied, and he was fat and not at all chased by girls.)
 
Felgen

Felgen

Well-known member
PipsMcClawski said:
I was told by a friend it was quite the unpleasant experience. He sore an oath to never take a girls virginity again lol. I was like "Umm ok? Thanks for sharing that with me man.".
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It's better to regret something you did than to regret something you didn't. :D
 
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userremoved

Guest
Felgen said:
It's better to regret something you did than to regret something you didn't. :D
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He was only saying that to get under my skin. He was one of those guys that love to boast of their sexual exploits.
 
Luke1993

Luke1993

Well-known member
I read that the average person in the UK loses their virginity at 17.


I'm 18.


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Nassigkn

New member
Yep, and I'm fine with it that way. At least for the moment. ;) If in the next 10 years nothing happens, it might be a different story
 
Shant

Shant

Well-known member
Yes. I don't care, to be honest.

Being in college, I can perfectly picture being asked this, saying "Yes", being thoroughly laughed at, but walking away feeling rather apathetic, indifferent, and stoic-like. I mean, who cares. Not something worth worrying about or even thinking about.

Or, damn, I've really closed myself off to the concept of love. Which is also a possibility, lol.
 
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