S_Spartan
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So that's it, then? It's either evolution (easily defined as whether you pass on you genes by raising offspring who manage to reproduce) or "societal conditioning" (rather a vague term)? There is no point where you can see with your own eyes that you've become good at something? No free will? Everything pre-decided and leaves you powerless?
You can't realize that you've become an amazing chef, or multilingual, or write stories than many people like to read? You can't figure out that you're a renowned artist or brilliant programmer or that you make the best chairs that anyone has ever landed their buttocks on?
Funny, that. :thinking:
My point was that someone had to create all those things to be good at and in order to be good at them someone had to define what "good" is.
We are born into this world using other people's standards to define what is valuable and what is not.
There is nothing wrong with being good at something and striving but I think the individual should understand that the thing is not their life. Their life is their life. THIS is where people mess up and they let their whole self worth ride on some external thing or things.
Basically I'm arguing the old philosophical quote "existence precedes essence" which asserts that the fact you exist is greater than your actions.
When you look at life through that lens there aren't any winners or losers but people just "are".