Deus_Ex_Lemur
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When you put yourself out there and people say NOTHING at all. Like you don't exist. I'd rather have something negative said than nothing at all. (within reason of course
"Everyone is shy!"
Yeah.. Not like me.
Adding to that: ...Whether you "fight" what has been said. Fustration = pain. If you can somehow just "accept as-is" what has been said, irrespective of how innacurate/absurd/disgusting/etc you deem it (& the person) to be. Just "accept" it, whatever it may be. There's always at least a tiny bit of truth to it. And they have their real reasons/motivations/causes for saying such.The problem is not what is said, but whether you listen to it or not
That's "ignorance to a Tee". The epitomy of ignorance. Unfortunately the world is full of know-nothing know-it-all's...I have a good friend who I hang out with a lot, who has no clue about SA nor cares to even learn what it's about. If he asks why I don't do something, or am a certain way, I try to explain myself and his only response is "Why!?", with this look on his face like I'm stupid or something. I just shrug it off and tell him because that's the way I am! He usually gets mad and then we immediately change the subject
Well, that sounds ridiculously awful! I'm thinking your classmates had as much trouble as you finding compliments for each other, so "you're quiet" and "you're shy" were the best they could come up with.This one incident from high school makes me cringe. One of my teachers decided she wanted to boost our self-esteem. Anonymously we were to write something nice about each of our classmates, like compliments, things they do well, things we might even admire about them; then she compiled a list for each of us listing all the things our classmates wrote about us. I almost broke my head trying to come up with sincere compliments for my classmates, so when I got my list, it completely broke my heart to see that the majority of my classmates wrote things like "you are quiet," "you are shy." Ugh. Ugh. Ugh. It made me so mad 'cause I actually wrote nice things when they were not particularly nice. What made me even more upset was that this teacher read those comments and still decided to pass them along...couldn't she have tweaked them?
"This is why everybody hates you u stupid b*tch, its because you don't know how to fvcking act, look at that stupid face of yours." - that was my mom a few minutes ago. I'm pretty much used to it by now, i hear that from her all the time.
"This is why everybody hates you u stupid b*tch, its because you don't know how to fvcking act, look at that stupid face of yours." - that was my mom a few minutes ago. I'm pretty much used to it by now, i hear that from her all the time.
"This is why everybody hates you u stupid b*tch, its because you don't know how to fvcking act, look at that stupid face of yours." - that was my mom a few minutes ago. I'm pretty much used to it by now, i hear that from her all the time.
I don't really know what to say"This is why everybody hates you u stupid b*tch, its because you don't know how to fvcking act, look at that stupid face of yours." - that was my mom a few minutes ago. I'm pretty much used to it by now, i hear that from her all the time.
"This is why everybody hates you u stupid b*tch, its because you don't know how to fvcking act, look at that stupid face of yours." - that was my mom a few minutes ago. I'm pretty much used to it by now, i hear that from her all the time.