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    spontaneity in conversation !

    whenever i'm a situation that needs me talking, i loose spontaneity ! my head goes blank and i run out of ides to talk about !!!!!!!!! Does any of you guys have tips to get over this ?!
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    I feel hated no matter what !

    I think i'm a polite guy, i respect people that i meet recently, i smile , i'm nice to them ....etc, but it always ends feelings hated or not wanted at the end of the day !! even my best friends, i feel they don't really like me inside, are my feelings right or it's just all in my head !does...
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    Awkward around children

    I hesitated about starting this thread, i thought it might sound stupid ! Anyway, i really hate these moments when you are supposed to give a compliment about a child or a baby i'm introduced to or have just met, i just don't know what to say, knowing that childrens reactions mainly are...
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    Bad memory! anyone?

    and yep, i've got a horrible memory, i forget everything : from where i put things, wallet, keys, my phone.., to friend's names ( yep awkward i know ); the funny one is when i'm in bathroom to take a shower and forgetting something like a towel for exemple, i go to my room and once i'm there...
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    Extreme shyness movie related !

    there is that movie called Romantics Anonymous, i really loved it and i wanted to share it with you, here is its story i copied from the youtube tralier description: Romantics Anonymous tells the story of Angélique (Isabelle Carré, Private Fears in Public Places), a gifted chocolate-maker whose...
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    Do you take everything personal?

    I tend to take everything personal, even sometimes ridiculous things like going to the grocery store and not being smiled to, or not said hello to ! can anyone relate to this ?
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    What's the best threadead on you've read on SPW ?

    What's the best thread you've read on SPW ? I'm certain that there are great threads who can be very benificial hidden somewhere here on SPW, maybe if everyone shares the best of what he has read it'll be great discovering them again :)
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    A psychiatrist ! Is it really worth it ?

    So i'm thinking of going to a psychiatrist, but i'm really doubting that i'm gonna benifit something out of it, i don't really like the idea of taking medication to cure SA ! I'm afraid i'll waste my money for nothing, what do you think guys !? Any feedback would be appreciated. Thanks
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    anyone addicted to lottery ?!

    hi everybody, i've noticed that i'm starting to develop an addiction to lottery and football betting , it's just frustrating to realize how much money i've lost for nothing, trying to make a shortcut to success without much work ( thinking i'm clever lol ) Is anybody going through or have...
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    can't step forward in my life ?

    well, since almost 4 years it seems that i haven't achieved anything in my life, i'm a 25 years student at univesity and it's really going bad with my studies, i'm just keeping worrying about the future, my social anxeity has not improved in any way, i have lost every single bit of confidence, i...
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    Afraid to open a new thread !!

    well, the title says it all, it's been a while that i come to SPW but couldn't open a new thread except that i did now :) Actually i've been participating in here about less than a year ago, but i found that my SA is getting worse. i didn't really have friends in here maybe because of i'm not...
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    when you ask someone and he doesn't respond to you ?

    Ahh, i can't stand that ! it happens to me with a friend lately, when i ask him a question, just to have a simple conversation, he doesn't answer me, and don't even look at me ?! pretending he didn't hear me ! my question is why he is doing it ? is it because he hate talking to me ? or what ...
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    Anyone else struggling with studies

    anyone can relate to this? i study physics at the university, but it seems that i can't focus enough to get good results, i focus more on my SA and related stuff but never at studies !
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    Social Anxeity and Religion

    Hello everybody, it's been a long time i didn't post any thread, actually i started one recently but it seems that moderators have deleted it, anyways, as the title indicates, i want to talk about religion and any potential relation with Social Anxeity? I mean, personally, i was very...
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    *** Where is Everyone From? ***

    i'm from Alhoceima, a mediterranean city of Morocco, i enjoy the sun and beaches in here, welcome anytime
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