Oh no worries, Dottie. I appreciate your honesty, that's what I need to hear. Sometimes I think that having a 'big heart' and being 'caring' can be a bit of a hindrance, with me at least. Yes, you are right, I need to take care of ME first. My next project, lol.
Ooh, yeah I see the resemblance too, I've hadn't heard of her until just now though. I'll have to look into her more, I'm always looking for new music so thanks!
the piece of sex in my avatar is Chloe Sevigny from some movie called Kids. And yeah, I find reading your posts to be the kick in the butt I sometimes need. So thanks!