Lavinia84
Well-known member
So, I've been thinking...
I suppose I have always assumed that the ideal partner for me would be extroverted, someone who could bring me out of my shell, or someone I could hide behind when I couldn't cope.
But realistically is this ideal? I think I've thought this way because I have always felt that my phobias were wrong and needed to be fixed, but maybe I just need to accept who I truly am.
So what do we all think? Do we social phobes match best with others like us or not? Do we learn best from the support of the like minded or pushing from our opposites?
I suppose I have always assumed that the ideal partner for me would be extroverted, someone who could bring me out of my shell, or someone I could hide behind when I couldn't cope.
But realistically is this ideal? I think I've thought this way because I have always felt that my phobias were wrong and needed to be fixed, but maybe I just need to accept who I truly am.
So what do we all think? Do we social phobes match best with others like us or not? Do we learn best from the support of the like minded or pushing from our opposites?