The negative thread

Phoenixx

Phoenixx

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Invisibleman said:
This thread reminds me of a friend and me hanging out the hotel window in paris screaming such hilariously pessimistic things::p: oh right this is the negative thread uhm....theres no cinnamon rolls left and im really bored.
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^ My cousin just made cinnamon buns tonight. There's a lot and she definitely can't eat them all herself (and I can't help her). I'll share for her. (shhh) :D

*gives Invisibleman a few cinnamon buns*
 
awkwardamanda

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I'm bored.

I've been sick for a week.

I live like a hoarder.

I need a new job.

I have bad skin and it's driving me nuts.

It's my birthday soon and I'm not looking forward to it.

People suck.

I hate my life.

And something about electrons.
 
hidwell

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awkwardamanda said:
I'm bored.

I've been sick for a week.

I live like a hoarder.

I need a new job.

I have bad skin and it's driving me nuts.

It's my birthday soon and I'm not looking forward to it.

People suck.

I hate my life.

And something about electrons.
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At least your looking on the bright side.;)
 
1BlackSheep

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One of my acrylic nails is about to pop off and I have no nail glue to fix it. And I'm too lazy to go out and get some. Tragic, I know! ::p:
 
KiaKaha

KiaKaha

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coyote said:
i'm suggesting that perhaps your depressed emotional state has led you to perceive things inaccurately (or at least from a biased perspective), or to make assumptions about other people's thoughts and feelings that might NOT be valid

either that, or there's something you're not telling us about your appearance, hygiene, manners, or demeanor (or perhaps something you're not even aware of) - that turns people off

but since i'm not there to see it happen for my own eyes - i really can't say for sure

i'm sorry that this is happening to you - even if it is all in your head - i'm sure it's a horrible way to live
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The thing is that I even though I can become very unhappy - it is usually a because of the way people react toward me. It's an effect not a cause. It's hard to see things objectively because I can't place myself outside of myself so I can't be sure of what it is that is really going on. I am just not sure... but it feels very real.

I kind of wish I had some guy to watch what I am like in the "real" world to tell me how it is that I am coming across - what it is that I am doing wrong.
Hygiene - check (god I hope so at least)
Manners - check
Demeanour - an interesting one. Hard to measure.
Appearance - still mediocre, but people seem to like my pictures. I have a wicked visible scar on my scalp. :D

Not sure. But thank you Coyote for your kind words - it is a problem I imagine I will have for some time... not unless I can have someone with me who can help me understand it.
 
Graeme1988

Graeme1988

Hie yer hence from me heath!
Awright, sis, I get it! Okay...?! You're very intelligent. Nae need tae rubber my face in it, all the time. Geez! What ye dae, anyway? Have ye spent the last year - or however long it's been since ye met your smug, stuck-up boyfriend - raping the pages of the English thesaurus with the left-side of your f***in' brain? Or did ye consume the f***in' thing cover tae cover? It doesn't really impress me, anyway. So ye know some big words. Yay! Congratu-f***in'-lations! Not only are ye older than me by a mere 20 years, you're also smarter than me as well. You're intellect is far superior to mine.

Now, take yer sweeties n' f**k off!
 
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MsBuzzkillington

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coyote said:
i know you don't want to hear this, but have you considered that maybe you just THINK that is the reaction that other people have towards you?

please don't misunderstand - i'm not saying you are stupid, and can't tell the difference - i believe you are very bright and introspective... but, perhaps you've thought about it too much

i'm suggesting that perhaps your depressed emotional state has led you to perceive things inaccurately (or at least from a biased perspective), or to make assumptions about other people's thoughts and feelings that might NOT be valid

either that, or there's something you're not telling us about your appearance, hygiene, manners, or demeanor (or perhaps something you're not even aware of) - that turns people off

but since i'm not there to see it happen for my own eyes - i really can't say for sure

i'm sorry that this is happening to you - even if it is all in your head - i'm sure it's a horrible way to live

that's why i keep trying to encourage you to look at other possibilities for a cause - like your own thinking)
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This is what I have been trying to tell him for months now.
 
KiaKaha

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MsBuzzkillington said:
This is what I have been trying to tell him for months now.
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I get what you are all saying... but seriously...you have to see it. I dont make this stuff up. I really really don't. I know that a depressive state can askew ones mind and make things seem to be worse off. I totally get that.

I just dont know. I cant be sure

You know what I think it is? People are just superficial, dismissive, rude, smug bastards who think they know everything - and only value traits that somehow make THEM look good - people are full of prejudice, bias and value nothing but status and quick fixes - which is something I am tempted to expand on.

I try. I really do... but no one believes me that these behaviours and reactions happen. I can think of so many examples where people have been atrociously rude to me for absolutely no reason that I can conceive. I know how it sounds. I wouldn't believe me either.
 
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hidwell

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Melancholy mood drifting into the abyss with the stars and moon as my companions lighting the way into the infinite space of the milky way.
 
coyote

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KiaKaha said:
... but no one believes me that these behaviours and reactions happen. I can think of so many examples where people have been atrociously rude to me for absolutely no reason that I can conceive. I know how it sounds. I wouldn't believe me either.
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it's just difficult for me to understand, because that has not been my experience with the world.

and since i don't consider myself special enough to rate any sort of special treatment, i can't figure out how the world i've encountered can be so different than one that you have encountered
 
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da_illest101

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KiaKaha said:
I get what you are all saying... but seriously...you have to see it. I dont make this stuff up. I really really don't. I know that a depressive state can askew ones mind and make things seem to be worse off. I totally get that.

I just dont know. I cant be sure

You know what I think it is? People are just superficial, dismissive, rude, smug bastards who think they know everything - and only value traits that somehow make THEM look good - people are full of prejudice, bias and value nothing but status and quick fixes - which is something I am tempted to expand on.

I try. I really do... but no one believes me that these behaviours and reactions happen. I can think of so many examples where people have been atrociously rude to me for absolutely no reason that I can conceive. I know how it sounds. I wouldn't believe me either.
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I seen that before, my friend's very presence suck the joy of life of the people near her. The way she look, walks and sound like and there is nothing she can do about it unless she change, which will never happen
 
chibiXphantom

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well...im not allowed to go anywhere until i get a job =[
so its like im grounded because no one wants to hire me...
 
Aletheia

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coyote said:
either that, or there's something you're not telling us about your appearance, hygiene, manners, or demeanor (or perhaps something you're not even aware of) - that turns people off

but since i'm not there to see it happen for my own eyes - i really can't say for sure
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I can say for sure that it's none of the above
 
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