Deus_Ex_Lemur
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What do you mean uncalled for? Pookah said many people felt like she did, but there was no evidence. I was asking could these many people talk on their own behalf and not get her to post here.
Are you saying that people who feel socially excluded should deal with it themselves? Unfortunately people do feel that it's us against them because of the social division that is created by inclusion/exclusion frequently displayed. Sometimes all you see on a thread is one joke after another between two people. Are you saying i'm not being respectful? Why are you saying a thing like that for ?
I struggle being articulate, but you are stretching what I was saying, prob my fault, wasnt being clear. I did not at all say ppl who feel socially excluded deal themselves. I SAID we can all be more aware and open as Remus said, but there will ALWAYS be a type of social groups, that doesn't negate THEIR issues over others. But should be more aware they may UNINTENTIONALLY make ppl feel excluded or bad? Yeah I agree. Take it to a PM or minimessage - depends on thread too... but it's been a struggle for many to get there, members can be welcoming and open only SO much... we are all patients not doctors (as Nate says above). It may come off as us vs them to ppl but its never that simple is my point. We can all learn and understand eachother better, that's why we're all here at the end of the day, some may lose sight of that and make this their only outlet for socializing, but they have their own issues thus they may be just as lonely as someone who struggles to say anything despite not seeming that way. Nothings quite as it seems.
Not saying you're being disrespectful - I'm just trying to not let ppl feel hurt this thread can get passionate and not realize just like the point of the thread - So I apologize if I myself come off that way.
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