Have you ever tried to get a girlfriend or boyfriend?

zav943

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I have tried and failed, and honestly, don't even bother anymore. I've accepted that I may as well die alone.

Only one girl has ever shown interest in me. We got together for a while, then she left me for her ex...she's married to him now :/
 

AGR

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never tried,I am not going to try also,unless some girl appears and chages my mind,people are to snake like to me,also in the moment I least expect it seems like someone starts to like me........
 

fitftw

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I believe if you have to think of how to approach a woman, you shouldn't. When I find the one, I believe I won't even think about it, I'll just approach her and be natural and so into her. I really can't settle for less than that or else I'll just end up getting bored. I need to feel that "I have to, HAVE TO, have this woman!" feeling and I never have had it before. I've always known myself to 'settle'.
 

IamThisOne

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My brother told me that getting a girlfriend just happens. He usually talks to a girl or knows them on facebook, they hang out at a party, then they just keep hanging out like regular friends. The whole girlfriend boyfriend thing just happens.

Although there was this one time where he told me this girl grabbed his hand and put it on her breast. They ended up making sex, and that's all. Still cool though.
 

coyote

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My brother told me that getting a girlfriend just happens. He usually talks to a girl or knows them on facebook, they hang out at a party, then they just keep hanging out like regular friends. The whole girlfriend boyfriend thing just happens.

Although there was this one time where he told me this girl grabbed his hand and put it on her breast. They ended up making sex, and that's all. Still cool though.

exactly this

so instead of focusing on "getting a girlfriend", focus on making friends, hanging out, etc.

the rest will happen

really - that's the big secret

it's like when you've lost your car keys....

you find them as soon as stop looking for them
 

yumesa

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Since you go to college, have you consider dormitory? I've met alot of people from living in the dorms. Or go to whatever events your college holds like school trips. My college has speed meet stuff and parties.
 

mrb

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dont really try , girls sometimes come to me like on a plane the other day , stalking me sending me love letters , camping outside my house , fighting over me :confused: god knows why , im sick of it to be honest :D
 

Rembrandt Broam

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dont really try , girls sometimes come to me like on a plane the other day , stalking me sending me love letters , camping outside my house , fighting over me :confused: god knows why , im sick of it to be honest :D

It's a nuisance, isn't it? I tried putting a little sign on the front door - "No Unsolicited Girls. Thank You!" - but even that didn't deter them. What kind of world are we living in, where you can't go down to the local shop for some milk without being mobbed, eh?
 
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userremoved

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Heh I can't really classify what I've done over the years as "trying". So technically I can't get mad for always being single. >.>
 

JCVA

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Im trying. There is this girl I really like and I don't really have the courage to tell her my feelings yet. Im afraid she might reject me and I don't know how I will handle myself if she does.
 

lalabluechi

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If meeting people in person is hard my best advice is to go to a dating website. Match.com is the best place and they are very professional. It may seem dumb to find love on the internet but atleast give it a try.
 

lalabluechi

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Im trying. There is this girl I really like and I don't really have the courage to tell her my feelings yet. Im afraid she might reject me and I don't know how I will handle myself if she does.

I totally relate! I've had a crush on my classmate for hmm 6yrs since 7th grade. Never had the courage to tell him once. I thought maybe i would seem stupid or that he would reject me. Ahh sad...ive graduated already and I am glad i'm over him.
 

Fear of people

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I haven't ever tried to get a girlfriend. I'm always to afraid of getting rejected and I don't know what to say.

I would also like to know what types of places do humans meet the ones who become their girlfriend or boyfriend? I would like to get a girlfriend, but I don't know of any places to meet any because I don't have many girls in my classes at college and I don't meet any girls my age where I work.

I know this thread is stupid, but I want information on the subject.

I'm married lol.::p:
 

Felgen

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If meeting people in person is hard my best advice is to go to a dating website. Match.com is the best place and they are very professional. It may seem dumb to find love on the internet but atleast give it a try.

Actually, very few people on Match.com has a paid subscription. I think we're talking about 250 000 individuals out of 20 million individuals.
 
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