I'd rather have someone like me. Its such a pain to explain to boys that I hate parties, that I'd much rather stay in.
I had a very gregarious boyfriend who was interested in me because I was "mysterious." It got very annoying- him talking about nothing all the time- very quickly. My ideal relationship was realized when I broke up with him: being with someone that could withstand, and prefer, silence. I haven't found such a person. I don't think I will. But at least I know what I hate: belligerent, non-thinking idiots that talk to fill gaps of "awkward" silence.
They say opposites attract, but in reality, they attract and promptly self-destruct.