would you sleep with someone

[mrb]

No. I don't do casual sex or one night stands, and one date isn't enough to know whether you want to be serious about someone, even if it were for 24 hours.

ok picture the scene , your on the beach together after a lovely candle lit dinner , its late , you can feel the warmth of the summer breeze coming from the ocean , you can see the stars twinkling in the sky , the setting is perfect , almost to perfect , the bottle of wine is half empty to took with you to the beach , your both lieing there on a blanket facing eachother , relaxed happy , telling eachother stuff you would never normaly say to anyone about yourself , you kiss , you feel your heart race a little , his hand touches your face , his other hand on your leg , you look into eachothers eyes , he wants you , you want him , your both trembling , a little scared , but enjoying the moment , again you kiss only this time longer more passion , your heart feels like its going to expload , your mind is awash with sexual thoughts , your taken over by lust ........ suddenly he says hang on didnt you say on your post one date is not long enough to be serious about someone what on earth do you think your doing pants ....... im probably going to get banned for this

 

[fudgy]

frickin ell mrb

 

[BlueDays]

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[madness_lover]

No =P.

Yeah, I mean sometimes things just happen and with all the hormones and all but it doesn't quite feel right. I guess it depends on certain things I'm not discussing here xD.

 

[Tangent]

There is always, always a risk of pregnancy and I think the potential to create new life has to be the most important consideration. Anything less is pure selfishness.

People don't ask to be born so the interests of potential children have to come first. Children deserve to get the best possible start in life and be born to parents in stable, loving relationships, and I don't see how stable, loving relationships can be determined in 12 hours.

One might suggest having an abortion if the relationship goes sour and pregnancy has ensued, but it's not a procedure that sits comfortably with me. Science can't tell us when a human being becomes a human being so most people's conclusions on this point are arbitrary.

So to answer your question, no, I would not.

 

[Danfalc]

Tangent,while I have different opinions on the issue,I really liked that reply and you make some thought provoking points.

 

[madness_lover]

There is always, always a risk of pregnancy and I think the potential to create new life has to be the most important consideration. Anything less is pure selfishness.

People don't ask to be born so the interests of potential children have to come first. Children deserve to get the best possible start in life and be born to parents in stable, loving relationships, and I don't see how stable, loving relationships can be determined in 12 hours.

One might suggest having an abortion if the relationship goes sour and pregnancy has ensued, but it's not a procedure that sits comfortably with me. Science can't tell us when a human being becomes a human being so most people's conclusions on this point are arbitrary.

So to answer your question, no, I would not.

Great post.

I guess I am in the minority but sleeping with someone so quickly just doesn't agree with my moral system. Your post is also one of the reasons I would not do it. Protection is not 100% safe. Accidents can happen and diseases can be spread. If someone is not ready to face the consequences of those actions then it's best they don't do it. Sleeping with a person is not a guarantee you will be in a relationship with that person or that they'll be there in case of a pregnancy.

 

[Luke1993]

If it was what she wanted then yes I guess I would, Though you should never go to war without a helmet!(condom)

 

[fudgy]

Though you should never go to war without a helmet!

you funny funny funny funny man


I AM ROCKING IN MY CHAIR LAUGHING AT THAT

 

[Pink_Paula]

I would if the chemistry was there, i wouldn't just sleep with any random guy lol but if i felt the need to sleep with him then why not ::

 

[KiaraBlue]

ring ring ....... ring ring ..... ring ring , hello whos that , its me gary from spw um i read your post , well blue what can i say ill be there in half an hour

Was you at the door while I was sleeping? Somebody was ringing but I didn't answer..lol

 

[lurknomore]

ok picture the scene , your on the beach together after a lovely candle lit dinner , its late , you can feel the warmth of the summer breeze coming from the ocean , you can see the stars twinkling in the sky , the setting is perfect , almost to perfect , the bottle of wine is half empty to took with you to the beach , your both lieing there on a blanket facing eachother , relaxed happy , telling eachother stuff you would never normaly say to anyone about yourself , you kiss , you feel your heart race a little , his hand touches your face , his other hand on your leg , you look into eachothers eyes , he wants you , you want him , your both trembling , a little scared , but enjoying the moment , again you kiss only this time longer more passion , your heart feels like its going to expload , your mind is awash with sexual thoughts , your taken over by lust........ suddenly he says hang on didnt you say on your post one date is not long enough to be serious about someone what on earth do you think your doing pants....... im probably going to get banned for this

I guess you expect that I would be on a date with someone who reads this board... ::

 

[Remus]

He's been reading Mills and Boon again

 

[AGR]

No, I'd never sleep with a girl after such a short time, and frankly I'd lose respect for any girl who would want to, however much I was into her.

Now, the animalistic side of me would still want for us to screw like rabbits, but subduing those lower impulses is one of the few things I'm good at.

I agree,I would like to know the person first,I am not exactly irresistible,but I have to say the oportunity presented itself many times in the past,all were turned down,I know the odds are small,but what if the person is married or even worse have a disease, raper,serial killer,sadistic or a con artist you couldnt tell,you dont know the person,people should be at least a bit more careful,sometimes I look at people and think wtf is going on in their heads.

 

[Felgen]

If it's a girl I'd actually be interested in spending my life with, I wouldn't sleep with her on the first date. On the other hand, if she was attractive and made the first move, but I wasn't interested in her, I would.

 

[Nicholas]

Maybe I would try, if I wasn't scared and I felt 100% comfortable (which is very unlikely, since I'm a virgin, and one day would definitely not be enough for me to feel comfortable), but I would do it just for sex. Not "love". One day is not enough to understand if a feeling is just "attraction", or if it is "real love".

 

[Emily_G]

Lol I like how this is in the "meeting people" section. "hey nice to meet you. wanna bang?" haha, just found it funny ::

 

[da_illest101]

I don't think I would, even though I'm a virgin and I really want to have some fun, I can never see myself just having fun with someone i just met

 

[freestylemonster]

I probably would, but then again I'm a 19-year-old guy who is sexually depraved lol

 

[Chlo]

When i said

if your both in that zone it just happens, whoever turns around and says they cant do it because they have just met is insane. sex is natural.

Someone sent me bad rep saying
[I have no comment for these foolish words]

Well excuse me i have the right to my own opinion. You could have at least left your name.