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Would you get married?

Started by Moonie · Aug 13, 2009 · 131 replies

#121 Report
My parents got divorced a year ago but I still want to get married in the future. I love the idea of having the person you love around 🙂
Before I met my boyfriend I could not imagine getting married. Or even getting a boyfriend. But that changed and I look at things from a different perspective. I think that once you find someone that loves and supports you start to see that always being by yourself is not all that.

I am not particulary thrilled with the idea of a wedding ceremony so I would keep it small, with the closest friends/family. Preferably somewhere where we would be surrounded by nature.
It would be huge stress for me but maybe marrying the person you love would make it easier. When I'm old I'd like to look back and thought to myself that I am happy that I went through with it and that it was a day to remember ^^
#122 Report
i want to get married someday. to me its a celebration of two people's commitment to one another, and i see nothing wrong with making it as special as it can be. its more than just a legal contract. maybe im just a hopeless romantic, but its something i do daydream about.
i know what colors i want, what dress style i want, some decoration ideas. not that im in a rush to get married. thats far from the case, but when the day comes, i want it to be really nice.
and i hope someday someone does want the same.
#123 Report
chibiXphantom said: ↑
i want to get married someday. to me its a celebration of two people's commitment to one another, and i see nothing wrong with making it as special as it can be. its more than just a legal contract. maybe im just a hopeless romantic, but its something i do daydream about.
i know what colors i want, what dress style i want, some decoration ideas. not that im in a rush to get married. thats far from the case, but when the day comes, i want it to be really nice.
and i hope someday someone does want the same.

Sounds very nice! You'll find someone. 🙂
#124 Report
I would only marry a woman
#125 Report
No. I want to live with the person I care for, but I don't want to have to sign papers.
#126 Report
Hell no.


I get bored of being with people too fast.
#127 Report
I am just waiting for the pessimistic replies of our defeatist forum-mates, but I think marriage is a bigger responsibility if it's forced. I'd like to marry if it happens naturally.
#128 Report
Marriage makes no sense to me. It will only make things harder for me to get away from someone if it doesn't work out. Or for them to get away from me. And I don't want to unconditionally share my money or anyone else's.
#129 Report
Yeah, I would. It is not something that I've dreamed of all my life though, so I'd be okay either way really.
#130 Report
i've only done it twice

so far
#131 Report
my dad brainwashed me into the traditional, standard white picket fence lifestyle when i was a kid. naturally, i got scared of all those things (marriage, college, career) thanks to SA. the sad part is, i think he's kinda accepted the truth...
#132 Report
I think I answered this once before. The answer is still no. Sometimes I wish for a divorce from the human race.

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