LazyHermitCrab
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i've been dating this guy for almost a year. this has been my longest, meaningful relationship ever. this guy never cheated on me and i feel like he never would. we're compatible and i've never opened myself up to anyone before but i think religion is about to end it and i don't know how to deal with it. today we hung out and he talked about moving in together in a couple yrs and that was his life plan. all that changed when we watched a certain religious movie together. it pretty much sumed up how a marriage won't work without it. this changed his attitude completely. he told me that the only thing that would break us up is if i didn't convert. i'm not sure what to believe now and i thought he should love me either way. He said he would love me no matter what but what's the point if we're not together? i mean our beliefs don't seem that different how can anyone be exactly the same? I feel like he has been messing with my emotions all this time. After this i told him i would try but still i feel like it's being forced when he said that. ten minutes later he texts me saying he's playing video games while i just feel like crap on the couch. Has anyone been in this situation? maybe he doesn't love me as much as i thought. he's done all the "gentlementally" things but maybe he never meant it. I don't feel any secure feeling with i love you anymore. im so confused and not sure how much more i can take.... sorry this is long.... really. :/
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