I don't mean to cause offence to anyone with this post. I know most people here have had their fair share of crap thrown at them and treat badly at times and been really hurt but this forum just seems full of people wanting to dwell on things and feel sorry for themselves rather than people fighting and wanting to overcome it and I am frustrated by the defeatist attitude and huge negativity on this forum.
I feel like there is no point me writing positive pro-active posts on this forum any more because I know I will be lucky if I get more than 2 people replying.
If I write a negative post dwelling on how crap I feel I'll get 100 replies. I just don't understand it because almost all of us are struggling with SA, stuck in a rut doing so little with our lives and people just seem to want to dwell on it and are so negative, so few seem interested in discussing and working on trying to change it.
Dwelling on negatives will not change things, it just brainwashes you further into feeling so down and negative about yourselves, it is the worst thing you can do.
You owe it to yourselves to overcome this. You definitely have to be positive and try develop confidence and positive beliefs into yourself as well as no longer being hurt by the negative judgements that hurt you. So many people here have the potential to be stars and extremely well liked, confident people but the negativity that surrounds them means they aren't giving themselves a chance.
I realise this place isn't for me, I wish everyone all the best.
I feel like there is no point me writing positive pro-active posts on this forum any more because I know I will be lucky if I get more than 2 people replying.
If I write a negative post dwelling on how crap I feel I'll get 100 replies. I just don't understand it because almost all of us are struggling with SA, stuck in a rut doing so little with our lives and people just seem to want to dwell on it and are so negative, so few seem interested in discussing and working on trying to change it.
Dwelling on negatives will not change things, it just brainwashes you further into feeling so down and negative about yourselves, it is the worst thing you can do.
You owe it to yourselves to overcome this. You definitely have to be positive and try develop confidence and positive beliefs into yourself as well as no longer being hurt by the negative judgements that hurt you. So many people here have the potential to be stars and extremely well liked, confident people but the negativity that surrounds them means they aren't giving themselves a chance.
I realise this place isn't for me, I wish everyone all the best.