Rodox said:
I am average at best,if you passed me by the street you wouldnt look twice.
Yup i'd have to say that sincerely describes my situation too not that i'm all too bothered by it now days, and i realised this the other day when i walked into a clothing store and suddenly a bunch of taller more solid looking guys walked in and these girls couldn't stop giggling and blushing over them. you start to discover the real differences in the physical instances of peoples reaction to you initially compared to others ....
i'm more your skinny semi-casual clothing, black jeans, i'm obsessed with only wearing black jeans at the moment, a hoodie top, cool t-shirt, little bit of firm wax in hair but not overloaded and gelled up or the over-styled walking advertisement like the "metrosexual" style that many younger guys go for these days, how they all look the same .. ...
you get an idea of the image girls have in their heads of the guys they fantasize about ..and its understandable but again that a cliched way of looking at the world, i think this just stems from a little bitterness and jealousy on my part
the best thing is to not not focus on it, just distract yourself from letting it get in the way of your goals ...you can always experiment on your looks, go and ask for advice at salons for products that may suit your particular type of hair, visit some clothing stores and try on clothes you may have looked at twice at that you think you'd like and ask them for advice, because you may be stuck in a rut of routine in wearing the same old clothes you've stayed loyal to ..
exercise, buy a cheap indoor bike, go for walks, lift weights ..eat well, its all you can do ..