I would be hurt if someone who's really close to me did something completely irrational. But that's unlikely.
I have a list of things that don't always hurt, but annoy the hell out of me.
- When random people tell me how I should look and act.
- When some people claim to be friends just to get something out of me.
- When said "friends" create extremely dramatic situations to get my attention.
- When they BAWW, guilt trip me, trash talk, insult and say I'm the worst person in the world just for not wanting to put up with the BS.
- When they expect me to respond to their messages immediately and accuse me of ignoring them if I don't (that sometimes leads to BAWW, guilt trip, trash talk, insulting etc.)
- When they take advantage of my need of helping and end up using me as a punching bag or a therapist (might lead to creating extremely dramatic scenarios to get me to submit, and BAWW, guilt trip, trash talk, etc. if I refuse to submit)
- When I'm asked to be honest, and in the moment of being honest I get an aggressive reaction because the person can't handle the truth.
- Having to walk on eggshells around some people.
I think that's all. You may wonder now why I don't tell them to gtfo. Well, I do. I just have to face the consequences when I do, and it's not pleasant.