what kind of girls/guys do you like?

I like girls who look like this (my girlfriend).

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your girlfriend looks a lot like Katherine Heigl! you're lucky man:D
but I must admit that I'm more attracted to dark haired girls
especially those with green eyes and curvy body...:Du know
 

Lea

Banned
I have always been incapable of the most basic emotions. So, for me it has to make sense to be in a relationship. There is no other way.

Incapable of the most basic emotions? I don´t know, I don´t think so as you seem to be a quite sensitive, sensible and intelligent person who wouldn´t harm anyone. People without heart and emotions are different.

Also, falling in love doesn´t have to equal to loosing your mind :D. Quite on the contrary, the relationship will be better and more lasting if you employ your brain in choosing as well as heart. With which I don´t mean a cold calculation or requiring your partner to be inhumanly faultless. People are not pieces of furniture :).
 

Luke1993

Well-known member
For me personally..

I really really like the kind of girls (especially asian), that wear glasses, and nerdy kind of...I think that's really cute...and even more so if they're they nerdy studying type, the kind that stays in the library :)

and kind of quiet too :)

Wow this is what I would've put too!
 

Jake123

Banned
I'm primarily interested in guys whose personalities I like. Physical attraction comes afterward for me... Basically once I have feelings for a guy because I really like his personality and the kind of person he is, then he starts getting more and more attractive and I find him extremely hot (even if people generally find him butt ugly)
Love is blind after all... I don't judge by appearances :p Potential boyfriends are all a blank slate to me, I only "see" them once I really like them, so basically I have no preferences when it comes to looks or "types"...
 

klytus

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Incapable of the most basic emotions? I don´t know, I don´t think so as you seem to be a quite sensitive, sensible and intelligent person who wouldn´t harm anyone. People without heart and emotions are different.
Not having perceptible emotions doesn't mean that I am a serial killer. :p But, well, my ability to feel emotions is significantly less developed than it appears to be for others. Most people seem to be lead by their emotions, every single aspect of their existence heavily influenced by irrational thoughts.

Also, falling in love doesn´t have to equal to loosing your mind . Quite on the contrary, the relationship will be better and more lasting if you employ your brain in choosing as well as heart.
True.
 

talisman

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I tend to look for girls who are like myself. I think too much diversity scares me.

Still I guess physically I like girls who are short to average height, are cute looking as (opposed to modelesque) and who don't wear too much makeup.

Personality-wise they need to have a similar sense of humour (irony, word play etc), be interested in things (have hobbies and take interest in those of others), like historical and cultural things, be shy and understand SA, and finally not be too clingy, but also not too distant.
 

Darker Than Black

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whoa, u guys have a lot of standards, kind of high? don't you think?

My standards are not that high, at least I believe so, pretty much any girl is ok...lol..I probably sound desperate..

I like short ones, but not too short. I don't want them to be taller than I am..

cuz I'm around 181-182 cm, preferably chinese, I'm mandarin, from main land, like me :)

age doesn't matter, as long as they are not older than me by 1 yr, then its ok....

but where am I gonna get a girl like that?

I see a lot of them in the library/study hall all the time, but I don't how am I going to go up and start a convo..:(
 

dooby-duck

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I don't even think I could put in words the kind of girls that I like. I just know when I see and talk to them if I like them or not. I don't really have a type that I look for in terms of personality or looks.
 

Sinar_Matahari

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whoa, u guys have a lot of standards, kind of high? don't you think?

My standards are not that high, at least I believe so, pretty much any girl is ok...lol..I probably sound desperate..

I like short ones, but not too short. I don't want them to be taller than I am..

cuz I'm around 181-182 cm, preferably chinese, I'm mandarin, from main land, like me :)

age doesn't matter, as long as they are not older than me by 1 yr, then its ok....

but where am I gonna get a girl like that?

I see a lot of them in the library/study hall all the time, but I don't how am I going to go up and start a convo..:(

Come on now. Let's not be judgmental. I don't think it's wrong to want to be with someone whom one is compatible with. I shouldn't have to choose someone who is stupid or humorless for the sake of not being picky. I don't think my preferences were really picky.

Dude, just try and chat up one of those girls at the library. You must have something in common with them. Who knows what interesting girls you might meet if you don't try. You don't have to necessarily walk right up to them and start talking. Maybe make a comment or ask a question about a book they may be reading, a project they may be working on...
 

Sinar_Matahari

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your girlfriend looks a lot like Katherine Heigl! you're lucky man:D
but I must admit that I'm more attracted to dark haired girls
especially those with green eyes and curvy body...:Du know

Blondes are pretty. Especially Kinetic's girlfriend. I have to say though, that I prefer dark hair myself on both men and women but especially on men. That or natural red hair like that of some Irish. I really like platinum blonde hair even if it's not a natural occuring hair color.
 

Sinar_Matahari

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I'm primarily interested in guys whose personalities I like. Physical attraction comes afterward for me... Basically once I have feelings for a guy because I really like his personality and the kind of person he is, then he starts getting more and more attractive and I find him extremely hot (even if people generally find him butt ugly)
Love is blind after all... I don't judge by appearances :p Potential boyfriends are all a blank slate to me, I only "see" them once I really like them, so basically I have no preferences when it comes to looks or "types"...

I know exactly how you feel! I find that I become attracted to guys because of their personalities even if I would normally not find them physically attractive. Some confidence and a sense of humor goes a long way, doesn't it? I do have preferences with looks though. It's just that they're not absolutely necessary.
 

Noca

Banned
Not taller than me, doesnt weigh more than me, speaks English, brunette, and is not a bitch.
 
Whomever I fall in love with – I don’t really have a preference. Don’t really have the typical demands like everyone else – Intelligent, Honest, Funny, Sociable. Just reminds me of shopping for the same groceries each week, I want to be surprised.
 

Nicholas

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Whomever I fall in love with – I don’t really have a preference. I want to be surprised.

You'll remember that when you find the perfect girl for you, and she pulls down her panties and you find out she's got a wiener. Then you'll be like "ok, I wanted to be surprised, but not so much".
Anyway, I agree with those who said that the more you like someone's personality, the more you might feel attracted to them... It's like an interesting personality can make you attractive and look physically nicer. I know this is true for sure.
 
You'll remember that when you find the perfect girl for you, and she pulls down her panties and you find out she's got a wiener. Then you'll be like "ok, I wanted to be surprised, but not so much".
Anyway, I agree with those who said that the more you like someone's personality, the more you might feel attracted to them... It's like an interesting personality can make you attractive and look physically nicer. I know this is true for sure.

I want to be pleasantly surprised not stupidly surprised - love happens over time - not in an instant. I'd rather he or she surprise me in the supermarket, and not in the bedroom.
 

Nicholas

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I want to be pleasantly surprised not stupidly surprised - love happens over time - not in an instant. I'd rather he or she surprise me in the supermarket, and not in the bedroom.
Of course, it would be weird to show you her baseball bat in a supermarket! :eek:
Hey, I was joking around, don't take it seriously ::p:
 

this_portrait

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I've noticed that I tend to like guys who are around my age, my height (or a little taller), with dark hair (though I've liked guys with lighter hair colors as well), fair/pale skin, and thin but not lanky (I prefer the slightly athletic look). That's what I've noticed I'm physically attracted to, anyway. >.>

Regarding personality and other characteristics, I like a guy who actually uses his brain. I prefer he have something going for him (because I really don't like the thought of dating a bum). I like when a guy doesn't give me special treatment just because I'm a girl; I prefer to be treated equally. If we have things in common, then that's even better, because then I can actually converse with him and talk to him about something besides, 'How was your day?'

But I've kinda given up on actually doing all the looking around for a guy, mainly because I believe that looking will get me nowhere. I have to wait for the guy to come to me. That usually wields better results.
 

Moonie

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Looks: Dark hair, long hair (I love me some long hair), Brown or hazel eyes, shortish guys around 5'6, I like piercings, Tats are cool, Average and even chubbier guys. Glasses are nice, but not necessary. Facial hair is nice. I seem to find metal dudes very appealing, which stinks because I am not into metal much and I am never their type, ugh!

Personality: Mysterious, quiet, loners, dorky, odd or kooky, well-mannered, funny, not selfish, go out of their way for me, reliable, keeps their word.


This is just some general ideas, but I don't like to pinpoint a type. I think when we do that then we might miss out on some great people. I have been attracted to different types of people.
 
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