what kind of girls/guys do you like?

It doesn't matter what I like, none of them like me anyway.

That's actually true. It's quite irrelevant what preferences people have. If the attraction remains unrequited, it's futile anyway.

Well I like girls who are nice most of the times,who will stay with me no matter what(hard to find this one hehe,who will put up with me),looks, there are some girls that have this smile,feminine way of moving,the way she talks,I dont know how to explain,that is soo cute that I just fall in love.

Women behind bars
Women in fast cars
Women in distress
Women with no dress
Women in aeroplanes
Women who play games
Women in uniform
See that woman with her clothes torn
Women who satisfy
Women you can't buy
Like women in magazines
And women in a limousine
Women who sip champagne
Women who feel no pain
Women in a disco
And women who don't wanna know, know, know
Oh women wanting sympathy
Women feeling ecstasy
Women who live in fantasies
Bringing man to his knees
Women who fall in love
Women who need a shove
Women who can't be beat
Get that woman in the back seat, yeah, yeah
Women in the U.S.A.
Those women steal your heart away
Women into rock 'n' roll
Women who steal the show, go, go, go
Women that you write songs about
Women that turn around and kick you out
Women you dream about all your life
Women that stab you in the back with a switchblade knife
Oh women, ooh, ooh
Talk about women
Around the world
Yeah women
Oh no, it goes
Talkin' 'bout women
C'mon baby

klytus said: ↑

That's actually true. It's quite irrelevant what preferences people have. If the attraction remains unrequited, it's futile anyway.

You'll probably find a girl that likes you when you least expect it. You should try and meet people who have your same interests. Who knows who you will meet? As I've said, you're a really bright and interesting guy so you already have something that a woman may be interested in. You have to make the effort though. Where sort of places do people who share your interests frequent? I bet there is some really smart girl out there who would be perfect for you.

My amazing, beautiful, supportive, loving boyfriend of three years David 🙂





And..... Andy Samburg





(Yes, I have a thing for long hair 😉 )

I like a girl that has the same taste as me (ex. likes anime and a tech geek) so that we have some topics to talk too when we were together. hehe

I would love any woman who loved me.... I'm 41 going on "older than the hills", so I can't afford to be choosy at all. But I guess she would have to accept me, and my hobbies, and massive taxidermy collection... For some, that is allot to ask of.

Attractive, dark haired girls who are talented in some way and who are just a little-bit crazy.

klytus said: ↑

Not having perceptible emotions doesn't mean that I am a serial killer. 😛 But, well, my ability to feel emotions is significantly less developed than it appears to be for others. Most people seem to be lead by their emotions, every single aspect of their existence heavily influenced by irrational thoughts.

Are you sure you don´t have Aspergers? They tend to be very rational people with less development in the emotional part. You try to deal with the world by your brain which you apply to everything because the emotional part is undeveloped. The result is sometimes a bit weird. It is not allways possible or appropriate to explain feelings rationally. For example if someone says: "I am sad", and you say: "But why, there is no reason to be sad, your feeling is irrational", it is a bit inapropriate because the person surely knows he has no reason to be sad. All he wants is compassion. I´m not saying you said exactly this, but similar things which only tend to piss people off. As I said they want compassion, which is a demonstration of love in fact. You might say love is a feeling and not rational, so what is the REASON for it. Similary some people, who are full of hate, tend to find every REASON for their hate. Is hate more rational than love? Either way, it´s both feelings, and not explainable rationally.

Still, being as rational as you are, as you yourself say, you want to find a woman and love. So, why do you want love, it´s not rational 🙂.
Seems to me sometimes like you don´t know what you want, or you yearn for it and push it away at the same time because you don´t know anyhow else. Same, you say you dislike people or are not interested in them and at the same time long for their company.

Anyway I am said to be AS too (without the intelligent part apparently), and have mess in the emotions department too. If everything could be dealt with pure rationally, it would be easier and safe.

El.Sonador said: ↑

she's very beautiful , you're a lucky man Kinetik

what's ur secret? 😉

Didn't you know? I'm a closet stud who never gets out or does anything. At least, that's what she says. Personally I'm just going to stick with "lucky" as well.

Still, being as rational as you are, as you yourself say, you want to find a woman and love. So, why do you want love, it´s not rational

It's more about finding someone of the opposite sex with whom I can have conversations of the type I want. However, those women usually are already in relationships, or know people who don't have the shortcomings I have - either way, I would be useless for them.

Seems to me sometimes like you don´t know what you want, or you yearn for it and push it away at the same time because you don´t know anyhow else. Same, you say you dislike people or are not interested in them and at the same time long for their company.

It's the general population's company I dislike. Simply because of my experiences with them - like a beaten dog shuns the place or people who have hurt it. It is clear that there are people out there who are different, but it's nigh impossible to meet them by just going out. That said, I long for the company of certain people.

"I am sad", and you say: "But why, there is no reason to be sad, your feeling is irrational", it is a bit inappropriate because the person surely knows he has no reason to be sad. All he wants is compassion.

Yes, well, I would hug the person, since I am quite huggy. And I am sure he would quickly stop wanting to be sad.

klytus said: ↑

Most people seem to be lead by their emotions, every single aspect of their existence heavily influenced by irrational thoughts.

This is me

I like the more shy/quiet girls. The gobby youths with all their 'assets' on show do nothing but make me lose repsect for them. And I'm not interested in girls I can't respect... There are so many of those in college, it makes me lose hope. Well, it would, if it weren't for one special person, who makes me realize there are still women out there for me, even if they are very rare.

I like really dark haired or red haired girls,who know what they want in life and reach for it,the ones that plan their future,also a bit bitchy type 🙂 anyway she would have to be complete opposite me,and such relationship would hardly work.

i really don't have a detailed prerequisite, i could list fantasy attributes of say a girl like Lilly Allen who has that straightened hair/fringe look that i'm into and wears cool clothes.
but if there is a connection then it is usually obvious and unexpected and all of those superficial idiosyncrasies fly out the window.

I'm not gonna decribe physical attributes because it's hard telling what i might like , i find lots of women attrative. I would like someone who stays at home mostly but is fun and will go out or go to the mountains maybe every other weekend or do something fun every once in a while. A solid, reliable mate moderatly attractive and stable is what i like.

Every guy I've been out with has been completely different and I've found each one attractive in his own way...the only thing they have in common is that they were all arrogant!!! Unfortunately!! I put this down to the fact that it takes someone very confident and outgoing to make me talk. I guess they keep trying too even when im holding back but I don't find arrogance attractive at all....its the people I seem to end up with.

In fact the other day I was explaining my situ (with sa) to a guy I've been on and off with coz we're very good friends and he said "but doesn't it make you more confident to know that someone like me wants you" I laughed so much!!!

In fact the other day I was explaining my situ (with sa) to a guy I've been on and off with coz we're very good friends and he said "but doesn't it make you more confident to know that someone like me wants you" I laughed so much!!!

Dear Goodness. That's beyond arrogance. 😛 Was it supposed to make you laugh - that is, a joke?

klytus said: ↑

Dear Goodness. That's beyond arrogance. 😛 Was it supposed to make you laugh - that is, a joke?

ummm no he's serious.

He also said its possible im a lesbian...because i said I didn't want a relationship or that I had a mental block because I didn't want to sleep with him hahahaha 😀

in many other ways he is very nice though, he's kind and understanding...he just thinks very highly of himself.

Quiet, down to earth, funny, smart, trustworthy and with good taste in things.