I will just copy and paste from an older post of mine in the thread "
Individual Partner Preferences". The list is complete and sound.
She has to be around my age to begin with and have a very profound personality that is - under expectable circumstances - unlikely to change significantly.
Some must-haves:
1. Honesty.
2. Intelligence and (working wholeheartedly on) university education: Either a mathematician, physicist, chemist or biologist, or some interdisciplinary field of science. She must be "interdisciplinary-curious" and mathematically-inclined. Certain faculties of engineering are acceptable, too.
3. Fidelity.
4. Compassion.
5. Companionship.
6. Looks.
7. Sensuality/Eroticism.
8. Conversation.
9. Partner in love.
10. Trustworthiness.
11. Demonstrates uniqueness.
12. Is ambitious and very curious.
13. Is creative, imaginative and has a well-developed capacity for abstraction.
14. Well-groomed.
15. Playful / touchy-feely.
16. Likes me for who I am.
17. Between 5'2" and 5'9".
18. Hates heels.
19. Hates to party.
20. Hates to drink alcohol.
21. Doesn't smoke and doesn't do drugs.
22. Hates to dress like women.
23. Loves trekking / hiking / going on adventurous journeys. Loves forests, as a consequence.
24. Skinny / athletic body type.
25. Is a misanthrope, a nihilist in the sense of this article:
"On Misanthropy and Nihilism."
27. Has an intact, loving family, ideally.
28. Speaks at least English fluently.
29. Has no friends and is a loner.
(30. Is deeply interested in the programming language Haskell.)
Some great-to-haves:
- Long hair with low frequency curls.
- Freckles.
- Green eyes.
- Dark hair. Naturally red hair is pretty, too.
Basically, I am looking for a woman whose personality and philosophy on life is very similar to mine. Heh. Let me comment on all of this briefly.
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Has no friends and is a loner. » - I admit, that sounds a bit weird; I am just not particularly interested in having to deal with her friends. I am a lone wolf, or at least sufficiently selective to not have any friends - or people in general - to spend time with. I wouldn't want to have to befriend her friends in order to not alienate her from them. Therefore it'd be better if she hadn't any friends herself.
##2, 19, 20, 21, 23, 24, 27 and
28 are
indispensable. Some criteria after
#18 are probably alterable to a certain degree. The gender-independent aspects are all true for me. What would I do with a woman who, say, loves to dance? Should I constantly disappoint her, make her sad or become good at something I truly hate? Or what about a woman who loves to party (pretty much all women of my age) - should I go on a party with her and wait silently in a corner (because I don't want to kill everyone's fun) until she's done doing what makes her happy? Sounds downright silly to me. I could stay at home and hope she doesn't cheat on me after getting drunk and hit on by numerous horny guys. -- And if criterion
#2 isn't met, there's not much outside of the bedroom we could do together. While that might be sufficient for some people, I doubt it's a path to happiness in the long run. Perhaps we could go trekking for weeks, but that's, again, likely something only very few women are into.
