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DaDahhhhDaDaDa said:That's so damn true, women are way, way more 'selective' *cough* shallow *cough* then men are. Along the list of things women want in men are tall, handsome, muscular, not overweight, great personality, gentlemen and let's not forget having a lot of CASH. What do men want? Sexually Attractive woman who doesn't nag (more often than not you'll get only one of those) Laughing And all those films about being shallow target men. Very Happy
But seriously the female sex drive seems really in excess of what I expected. All they seem to talk about is sex and rate passing guys... which is basically what men do but to a surprising lesser extent.
You have a point, Bianca. I've noticed the same thing. Forgive me but it seems very *cough* hypocritical *cough*Bianca said:DaDahhhhDaDaDa said:Bianca said:So you must be dating the wrong type of women. Only the shallow women care about those things like money. It just so happens that the shallow women are usually "Sexually Attractive." So YOU have to stop being so shallow and try and find a nice girl who maybe doesn't have the biggest boobs in the world.
The bullshit common misconception that so many women have - that all men like women who have massive boobs. I don't like big, sagging, vainy boobs. I prefer a thin woman who is feminine and has average/small breasts. And why should I go for the woman who doesn't have proper standards? If you don't have at least some standards for the opposite sex, in my opinion, it shows you don't have much confidence in yourself.
I've tried to like these 'nice' women, but I still need to be sexually attracted to make something work. How would I reply when a woman sporting the disgusting hairs of a semi-moustache and unshaven legs asks me why I seem 'down' in an intimate moment? I'd spare myself the awkwardness and walk away.
And I've also realised 'nice' in the terms I know your speaking of, is not so nice as she appears. 'Nice' often coincides with repressed anger and a whole lot of jealousy.
Oh there is nothing wrong having standards. Everyone has them, but I find it funny that when a women is being "selective" she is being shallow. When you are being selective you just have standards.
Perhaps if we as a community made less sweeping generalizations we'd be much happier as people.