OceanMist
Well-known member
Hey, I'm coming off what may have been the worst night of my life last night. I may have a lot to say, so bare with me.
I've done like 10 different meetings in person with 10 different women after meeting women online but this one was by far the worst.
I asked if she wanted to meet in a bar and she declined and said she'd rather meet at her house with her friend there. Right there, I should have known it was trouble. I remember thinking, why does she want to meet with her friend on what is supposed to be a date?
And you can kind of guess what happened. Both of them team up on me and things went sour really fast. She keeps saying how quiet I am. The first time she says that she sounds disappointed so I ask her, is that a problem that I'm quiet. She says it's okay.
Then she keeps saying I'm quiet, which then turns into calling me a little boy. Her friend then calls me "socially weak," the very non-glorious title to this thread. Now that one got to me. I've been doing a good job of not letting stuff bother me the past year or two, but this time it got inside my head.
They went on to just tag team on me, they teamed up and just were relentless. It eventually just escalated into one giant argument so I just started verbally fighting back and just kept repeating how messed up it was with what she kept saying.
I'm going to make this into two posts because this is long. Hold on.
I've done like 10 different meetings in person with 10 different women after meeting women online but this one was by far the worst.
I asked if she wanted to meet in a bar and she declined and said she'd rather meet at her house with her friend there. Right there, I should have known it was trouble. I remember thinking, why does she want to meet with her friend on what is supposed to be a date?
And you can kind of guess what happened. Both of them team up on me and things went sour really fast. She keeps saying how quiet I am. The first time she says that she sounds disappointed so I ask her, is that a problem that I'm quiet. She says it's okay.
Then she keeps saying I'm quiet, which then turns into calling me a little boy. Her friend then calls me "socially weak," the very non-glorious title to this thread. Now that one got to me. I've been doing a good job of not letting stuff bother me the past year or two, but this time it got inside my head.
They went on to just tag team on me, they teamed up and just were relentless. It eventually just escalated into one giant argument so I just started verbally fighting back and just kept repeating how messed up it was with what she kept saying.
I'm going to make this into two posts because this is long. Hold on.