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Does this girl know you are married with a family!?:question:

If she does know that while doing the "in season" body language with you, that is real nasty of her.:thumbdown:

Women who try to steal or use other women's happily married husbands are pond scum in my opinion.

Kudos to you jc, for resisting and putting your family first. :thumbup: :bowing:
 

GraybeardGhost

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Hmm . . .

Sounds like someone I know . . . who works in a factory . . . in your neck of the woods . . .

Naw, couldn't be.

Or could it? :question:
 
Does this girl know you are married with a family!?:question:

If she does know that while doing the "in season" body language with you, that is real nasty of her.:thumbdown:

Women who try to steal or use other women's happily married husbands are pond scum in my opinion.

Kudos to you jc, for resisting and putting your family first. :thumbup: :bowing:

I would imagine she's seen the wedding ring and the pictures of the wife & kids taped to my toolbox and stuff. I'm wondering now if its just a subconscious thing? Like she don't realize she's doing it or don't realize its so noticeable. Or, and this is far fetched, but maybe she's trying to hone her man hunting skills on the nonthreatening married dude in the bunch. Like with immunity or something?
 

GraybeardGhost

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Ill describe her. She's about 21, brown hair, blue eyes, about 5'7", and on the thin side. Real sweet and pretty.
Nope, different girl. Probably a good thing—one less bullet for you to dodge.

I would imagine she's seen the wedding ring and the pictures of the wife & kids taped to my toolbox and stuff. I'm wondering now if its just a subconscious thing? Like she don't realize she's doing it or don't realize its so noticeable. Or, and this is far fetched, but maybe she's trying to hone her man hunting skills on the nonthreatening married dude in the bunch. Like with immunity or something?
From what you've described, I suspect she knows exactly what she's doing, and rather than a deterrent, she may view your wedding ring and photos as a challenge. I think the best thing to do is to hold your present course and ignore her as best you can. Eventually, she'll get bored and go try her luck elsewhere. I wouldn't say anything to her unless she says something overtly sexual to you first. It's too easy these days for something like that to get twisted into a sexual harassment charge.
 

MikeyC

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I would imagine she's seen the wedding ring and the pictures of the wife & kids taped to my toolbox and stuff. I'm wondering now if its just a subconscious thing? Like she don't realize she's doing it or don't realize its so noticeable. Or, and this is far fetched, but maybe she's trying to hone her man hunting skills on the nonthreatening married dude in the bunch. Like with immunity or something?
Some women are highly attracted to married men. Maybe that could be it. Either way, best to steer well clear if you like your marriage!
 
Nope, different girl. Probably a good thing—one less bullet for you to dodge.


From what you've described, I suspect she knows exactly what she's doing, and rather than a deterrent, she may view your wedding ring and photos as a challenge. I think the best thing to do is to hold your present course and ignore her as best you can. Eventually, she'll get bored and go try her luck elsewhere. I wouldn't say anything to her unless she says something overtly sexual to you first. It's too easy these days for something like that to get twisted into a sexual harassment charge.

Might be. I reckon I'll keep on keepin on, so to speak. Not hurting anything for the time being but if it keeps up I'll eventually get tired of dancing with the spotted elephant in the room and say something. Yeah, really, and that's a very real thing to worry about these days! Glad you mentioned that.
 
Some women are highly attracted to married men. Maybe that could be it. Either way, best to steer well clear if you like your marriage!

Oh yeah. It's a shame too because she's a real sweetheart but she's too young for me anyway even if I was single. :perfect:
 
my dinner. BBQ over tortilla chips with shredded velveeta cheese. No wonder I'm a fat ***!
 

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I've got a 4 day weekend coming up. I'm contemplating doing some long range recreational shooting. A couple of years ago I had access to a half-mile (805 meter) range. I used to shoot between 200 and 400 yards (183-400 meters) at silhouette targets. Being that I don't have easy access to that gun range anymore I'll have to find somewhere else to go do my playing. I used to stay up to date with that but I've been so busy working all this overtime I don't mess with it much anymore. I hadn't wanted to do it in a long time but earlier this evening I was laying on the couch and my son was laying next to me and my daughter was in my recliner and we were watching the movie Jarhead (and yes, I muted the bad language and fast forwarded the sex scenes) and my son was in awe of the sniper rifles and the shooting the Marine snipers were doing and I told him that if he was on his best behavior this week that I'd let him try his hand at it. He's quite apprehensive of trying new things but my daughter wants to try it and she's very excited. So tonight I've dug out 3 sets of hearing protection, binoculars, spotting scope, targets, lead sled rifle rest, shooting mat, and cleaned the rifle we'll use. I also loaded up some lower recoil ammo than what I usually use. I'll let them shoot the mild shells at closer targets and switch to the hot loaded 'screamer' shells for my farther away targets. The wife walked into the garage after we got the kids in their beds and nighttime stories were told and books were read to them (I live for times like that), she seen me cleaning the rifle and inquired about what I was up to. So we talked while I was readying my stuff. I love it when nothing's going on and we can actually have conversations. So probably friday evening after I'm done mowing the grass and all my chores are done, me and the minions will load up in the old pickup and head to a gun range and put holes in targets from a long ways away. Great fun. And this way I can hone my skills in case of a zombie apocolypse or whatever lol.
 

Hoppy

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And this way I can hone my skills in case of a zombie apocolypse or whatever lol.

Once your skills are honed, I've got a little list of people I don't like.:bigsmile:

(It is a joke)

Nothing more fun than shooting. When I was in the army I was an artillery observer, and enjoyed every moment of it. It is fun telling a battery of 155mm guns where to shoot.

Once we drove along the Main Battle tanks while they were doing an attack exercise. Mayhem and thunder. The good old days.

(I am sounding old.)
 
Once your skills are honed, I've got a little list of people I don't like.:bigsmile:

(It is a joke)

Nothing more fun than shooting. When I was in the army I was an artillery observer, and enjoyed every moment of it. It is fun telling a battery of 155mm guns where to shoot.

Once we drove along the Main Battle tanks while they were doing an attack exercise. Mayhem and thunder. The good old days.

(I am sounding old.)

Awesome dude! Them howitzer cannons are some serious firepower. That sounds like a fun job. Fun times i bet :thumbup:
 
Two 'firsts' happened today for my little family: the baby did his first steps and we got our daughter a cell phone. The baby took like 3 or 4 steps to the old lady. It was a moment to remember. I'm proud of the tyke :) we had been talking about getting our girl a cell phone this year in case of emergencies like tornadoes or an active shooter type situation i.e. Sandy Hook, Columbine, and others. That way she can just pick up her phone and ill be there. Just a cheap prepaid phone with my number, the wife's number, my uncles number, and 911 set in speed dial. We can also use the phones gps to track her if we ever had to. I never thought i'd have to lojack my kid :rolleyes: but its the next best alternative to her putting a storm shelter, a fire extinguisher, and a platoon of soldiers in her backpack.
 
6 More hours to go, come back tomorrow night for a 12 hour shift and I'm home for 4 days. It'll be nice to have a break from microwave food and wear normal clothes for a while. Other than a trip to the gun range and mowing the grass i have no plans at all. I might go bush hog the old house place with the tractor just cause i find it theraputic.
 

MollyBeGood

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Hi Yay JC-
The very end are u ok?..?

It is an auto Chevy huh-they don't make manuals anymore it is so messed-up. I prefer a stick for mountain roads and hauling things.


Looks like you are living it up with the company rig. I miss having a 4x4 a lot
:( I do like the bench seat over the bucket still Lol

I had a cummins diesel dodge last truck, that was fun!...Then it shot up in price to have a diesel.. that sucked! Then he wrecked it drinking. :perfect:
 
Hi Yay JC-
The very end are u ok?..?

It is an auto Chevy huh-they don't make manuals anymore it is so messed-up. I prefer a stick for mountain roads and hauling things.


Looks like you are living it up with the company rig. I miss having a 4x4 a lot
:( I do like the bench seat over the bucket still Lol

I had a cummins diesel dodge last truck, that was fun!...Then it shot up in price to have a diesel.. that sucked! Then he wrecked it drinking. :perfect:

I dropped the phone like a big dummy lol. Yeah. We got the same taste in trucks. Youd like that old one of mine. Bench seat, bulldog 4 speed, etc. Rather have a stick any day
 
I'm still doing the video thing but I'm nervous as hell and can't do anything but talk about random trivial stuff. Who'd wanna watch that? You'd have to be real bored. I'm nervous and fidgety on camera and that's why half the time I'm just talking instead of filming myself. :shyness:
 
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