The positive thread

Shyangel

Shyangel

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That's excellent that you took that step. Time will heal that wound. :)[/QUOTE]

:)

I hope so. The thing after that is finding something I care about again. I want to care about something deeply like I use to, everything just seems so pointless without that meaning, but, I believe in myself. I'll find something again.

Thanks again, Mikey, for the kindness.

Positive:
I know I have better things waiting for me.
 
MikeyC

MikeyC

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Shyangel said:
:)

I hope so. The thing after that is finding something I care about again. I want to care about something deeply like I use to, everything just seems so pointless without that meaning, but, I believe in myself. I'll find something again.

Thanks again, Mikey, for the kindness.
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Well, it's a massive life change, especially if you've been together for a while and you did everything together, and now suddenly you have to paddle solo again.

In 2009 I had a female friend and we used to hang out every day. And I mean every day for about 3-4 months. I loved her company and I would've loved her to be my girlfriend, but she went off to the Navy and all of a sudden I was seeing her 7 days a week to 0 days, and that was a bit shock to me. "What the hell did I do with my time?" It took a little while but I got back into a routine. Much like you will. It won't be a fast change but you will find things that interest you (even if it's another boy) and pursue that.

Shyangel said:
Positive:
I know I have better things waiting for me.
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At least one of us thinks that.
 
Shyangel

Shyangel

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MikeyC said:
Well, it's a massive life change, especially if you've been together for a while and you did everything together, and now suddenly you have to paddle solo again.

In 2009 I had a female friend and we used to hang out every day. And I mean every day for about 3-4 months. I loved her company and I would've loved her to be my girlfriend, but she went off to the Navy and all of a sudden I was seeing her 7 days a week to 0 days, and that was a bit shock to me. "What the hell did I do with my time?" It took a little while but I got back into a routine. Much like you will. It won't be a fast change but you will find things that interest you (even if it's another boy) and pursue that.


At least one of us thinks that.
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I'm sorry, I just noticed this message.

Thanks, Mikey, I hope your right. I'm sorry you had to go through that, I know exactly how you feel. I was with my X for 4 years and we spent every second we could together, which, was less then we would of liked because he was in the army and I lived 2 hours away. I only saw him on the weekends and when he got time off. I would some times have to go weeks without seeing him because he had training and such. It was the most painful thing when he would have to go over seas for a year and half, I would cry my eyes out watching him get on that bus...He went to Iraq twice, which is most of our relationship....But, anyway, what I'm saying is I have my far share of experience with that shock. You'll find the right girl one day, Mikey, I'm sure of it. You just have to try and believe that..

Okay, something positive...

I'm Enjoying watching the battle of the exes. It's positive because I rarely enjoy anything. Even something simple like this feels nice.
 
MikeyC

MikeyC

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Shyangel said:
I'm sorry, I just noticed this message.

Thanks, Mikey, I hope your right. I'm sorry you had to go through that, I know exactly how you feel. I was with my X for 4 years and we spent every second we could together, which, was less then we would of liked because he was in the army and I lived 2 hours away. I only saw him on the weekends and when he got time off. I would some times have to go weeks without seeing him because he had training and such. It was the most painful thing when he would have to go over seas for a year and half, I would cry my eyes out watching him get on that bus...He went to Iraq twice, which is most of our relationship....But, anyway, what I'm saying is I have my far share of experience with that shock. You'll find the right girl one day, Mikey, I'm sure of it. You just have to try and believe that..
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Your situation eclipses mine. Having a boyfriend going to Iraq is a big deal, and I don't blame you for crying your eyes out about it. It must have been as tough for you as it was for him.

I might, but we'll see. I more hope you feel okay about your situation, though.
 
MikeyC

MikeyC

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Iluv said:
Positive? Oh gosh this is going to be hard .... erm.... uh...
I'm good at acting stupid. It makes people laugh. So I guess I make people laugh.
I don't even know if this is positive?
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There's got to be more than that! Although making people laugh is a good quality.
 
Iluv

Iluv

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MikeyC said:
There's got to be more than that! Although making people laugh is a good quality.
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Nope, there is no more than that XD! My mind is too stuck on my negative aspects that I'm on a writers block when it comes to positive!
 
MikeyC

MikeyC

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Iluv said:
Nope, there is no more than that XD! My mind is too stuck on my negative aspects that I'm on a writers block when it comes to positive!
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I guess we'll just have to agree to disagree because I think you have a lot more good points than you're letting on. :)
 
KiaKaha

KiaKaha

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I cant really think of anything. I dont really like myself all that much. I guess I can make people laugh sometimes.
 
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Minty

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I am a creative individual C: and very open to new knowledge and ways of perceiving the world. And I recently have faced my fears of going to class and haven't felt the urge to skip all semester long! Which is a BIG deal for me.
 
Falkor

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@Minty:

That is a wonderful step and also a brilliant attitude, love the mindset of yours :)
Keep it up , congratulations.
 
Srijita52

Srijita52

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Minty said:
I am a creative individual C: and very open to new knowledge and ways of perceiving the world. And I recently have faced my fears of going to class and haven't felt the urge to skip all semester long! Which is a BIG deal for me.
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That's really a big step, well done.
 
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