one comment which has affected your confidence
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coyote
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maybe they should get a medal for being so supportive
i wonder if they'd see the irony
BlueDays
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That is just really sad eatamoose:
: I just don't understand how a mother can call her own child dimwitted!?!? why? How can a mother be so insensitive to what that would do to their child??
Srijita52
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I'm very sorry,they were being so mean!I really hope it doesn't get to you too much though.
Srijita52
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It was really cruel of them,they seem like really ill-minded ppl.
FountainandFairfax
in a VAN down by the RIVER
She sounds like a delight. Ha Ha
I bet she'd go nuts if you said something to make her feel insecure like that.
My mother once told me, a few years ago, that "you're never gonna do anything with your life! You are gonna be just like your aunt". (My aunt is one of those "weird" people who barely ever leaves the house, thinks everyone are out to get her, and doesn't know anyone except her family and son, (who's also in the same mess as her). She's always "too sick" to do anything herself, haven't had a job in god knows, and is just overall very, very dysfunctional and strange.)
I remember where I was, how I was standing, and her facial expression. I remember it made me feel like a complete loser. It'll haunt me for the rest of my life, for sure.
I remember where I was, how I was standing, and her facial expression. I remember it made me feel like a complete loser. It'll haunt me for the rest of my life, for sure.
King of Wishful Thinking
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I don't know how it exactly affected my confidence, but my father once told me that he and my mother didn't think I'd live past 20 years of age.
eatamoose372
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ahahaha doubtful! In their heads, they probably think their the worlds greatest parents or something -.-
That is just really sad eatamoose:
I just don't understand how a mother can call her own child dimwitted!?!? why? How can a mother be so insensitive to what that would do to their child??
Yeah, I guess but it seems as though my moms's in the same boat as some of the others on here. They just don't really seem to truly understand how the things they say can greatly impact their kids lives...
thanks and nahhh, I'm use to them by now and know better than to dwell on their words for too long
LazyHermitCrab
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"Why do i always do all the talking?"
When I was a kid: "She sounds like a man" "what...who said that?" and then the friend replies "the one who sounds like a man"
Why I only ever spoke in a whisper as a child.
"Don't her eyes look burnt?!" "She looks like she's woken up from the dead!" "No your eyes are to baggy" and "Are you tired?"
I've been insecure about the dark circles under my eyes up until this day. Used bleaching cream in the past but they are still there::
Why I only ever spoke in a whisper as a child.
"Don't her eyes look burnt?!" "She looks like she's woken up from the dead!" "No your eyes are to baggy" and "Are you tired?"
I've been insecure about the dark circles under my eyes up until this day. Used bleaching cream in the past but they are still there:
:Another one is during a confrontation with a friend she says: "You think your the only one with problems" "Sort you head out."
And also "There's so much going on in the world" really makes me feel sick in the stomach.
My mother said: "You gave me stretch marks" and "Your not clever enough to go to university"
And also "There's so much going on in the world" really makes me feel sick in the stomach.
My mother said: "You gave me stretch marks" and "Your not clever enough to go to university"
girliegoth_360
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a few of my classmates from high school said that i looked like an anorexic whor@ when i was 16. I have never had an eating problem and I have only been with one person and we are married now!
Vampayah88
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”YOU have friends?!lol”
Phoenixx
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Today while I was at the mall, I was in American Eagle and then my brother comes in.
He says, "I thought you were in Charlotte Russe?"
Me: "Well, I was, but then there was this huge group of girls just gossiping and talking really loud, even though they were right next to each other. And even though I'd go to another rack, they were always there crowding. I couldn't take it, so I left."
Him: "I really don't understand you sometimes. Stop being so antisocial."
It didn't totally get to me, like tear me apart, but it did sting a little. It makes me think that I'll never have anyone that understands. Anyone in RL, that is. :/
He says, "I thought you were in Charlotte Russe?"
Me: "Well, I was, but then there was this huge group of girls just gossiping and talking really loud, even though they were right next to each other. And even though I'd go to another rack, they were always there crowding. I couldn't take it, so I left."
Him:
"I really don't understand you sometimes. Stop being so antisocial."It didn't totally get to me, like tear me apart, but it did sting a little. It makes me think that I'll never have anyone that understands. Anyone in RL, that is. :/