one comment which has affected your confidence
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Just_Visiting_This_Planet
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By my grandparents: "when you walk through the house it sounds like a herd of elephants is approaching. Maybe you should stop eating so much." (this was when I weighed 183 lbs)
By the same grandma: "You're losing too much weight, stop starving yourself." (I weighed 145 lbs at the time. I have a good appetite too so I don't know what she was talking about.)
I've also been called worthless,ugly, and a dyke several times by a few different people.
I also was getting called crippled a lot because I was on crutches twice my junior year of high school and for five months my senior year of high school.
By the same grandma: "You're losing too much weight, stop starving yourself." (I weighed 145 lbs at the time. I have a good appetite too so I don't know what she was talking about.)
I've also been called worthless,ugly, and a dyke several times by a few different people.
I also was getting called crippled a lot because I was on crutches twice my junior year of high school and for five months my senior year of high school.
Just_Visiting_This_Planet
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Oh I just remembered another good one.
Some random annoying guy started talking to me when I was waiting for the train. He asked me if I had a boyfriend and I said no. He responded, "yeah you look like you've NEVER had a boyfriend before." But it was weird because he followed me to my train. He was such a creeper and did not seem right in the head.
Some random annoying guy started talking to me when I was waiting for the train. He asked me if I had a boyfriend and I said no. He responded, "yeah you look like you've NEVER had a boyfriend before." But it was weird because he followed me to my train. He was such a creeper and did not seem right in the head.
simpsons2007
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I was in school and the teacher ask me a question I can't remember what the question was but I know I got it wrong and the teacher said "No wonder you failing class, your a stupid dumb t**s pot" and that was in front of the whole class and I was dying of embarrassment
Hemosapien
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"You can come across as rude and you dont give people a chance sometimes. Thats why you dont make friends with people easily." (my "best" friend)
I was happily going through life, not needing loads of friends because I was certain that the ones I did have, knew me inside out and loved me despite how **** I thought I was. Apparantly not. I thought I had actually been doing really well at trying to overcome how i felt and had more friends than i had ever had before. That comment ripped the carpet from beneath me.
I was happily going through life, not needing loads of friends because I was certain that the ones I did have, knew me inside out and loved me despite how **** I thought I was. Apparantly not. I thought I had actually been doing really well at trying to overcome how i felt and had more friends than i had ever had before. That comment ripped the carpet from beneath me.
Kathryn.fr
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This thread makes me sad! :'(
"I'm just as real as any other girl dad."
"No (chuckling and laughing) you're not..."
"I'm just as real as any other girl dad."
"No (chuckling and laughing) you're not..."
Helmaninquiel
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I've been called stupid a lot cause I'm not book smart at all. and the sad thing is it was my family (Not my mom) but I lived with my Aunt and Uncle for a little while and they were D.I.C.K.S
Srijita52
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I'm sorry to know that but just not being book smart doesn't make you stupid.I've met some book smart ppl who seemed pretty stupid to me.I think its our way of viewing the world that make us smart or stupid,not being smart on paper.
Just recently, my dad told me that I was a great kid and a good person and that my sister and I are the only good things he has to show for his life. He even teared up a bit. It made me a little sad for him, but he usually isn't so giving with praise and love, so it hit me like a ton of bricks. I'll always remember it.
ScaredToBreathe
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"she doesn't talk." (i get so anxious i become unwillingly mute)
"she's shy." (heh, right. im way more than shy and no one understands that)
"she's an idiot." (i never answer questions in class but i get straight A's on my work)
"she's shy." (heh, right. im way more than shy and no one understands that)
"she's an idiot." (i never answer questions in class but i get straight A's on my work)
* Children, you should never ever be like him
* You will be lonely,sad, frightened and have no one by your side at old age
* Who in the world will say hi to you
* Your life is total waste
* Look at that thin, ugly boy, whats the use of his high grades?
* People will spit on you face and drive you out of the area
* Go and die
* You will be lonely,sad, frightened and have no one by your side at old age
* Who in the world will say hi to you
* Your life is total waste
* Look at that thin, ugly boy, whats the use of his high grades?
* People will spit on you face and drive you out of the area
* Go and die
Rembrandt Broam
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Your mum said that?
She may as well have asked "Which one of my daughters would you like to make feel like crap?"
And your aunt is no better - she should have said something like "They're both as pretty as one another" or "I couldn't possibly decide between them".
Where to begin....
"You'll never fit in or be accepted by people"
"Everyone knows you have no chance of being a success"
"Poor redmatter"
Nothing quite gets to me like adding a "poor" in front of my name to describe everything in my life, even when I feel just fine...
I mean, some things I still am too embarrassed to admit as an anon, but the list goes on. These came from smiling so called friends at incredibly bad times, they just don't know.
"You'll never fit in or be accepted by people"
"Everyone knows you have no chance of being a success"
"Poor redmatter"
Nothing quite gets to me like adding a "poor" in front of my name to describe everything in my life, even when I feel just fine...
I mean, some things I still am too embarrassed to admit as an anon, but the list goes on. These came from smiling so called friends at incredibly bad times, they just don't know.
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