Incognito10
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I think that men would be more likely to date a woman who identified as bisexual than for a woman to date a man who identified as bisexual. Am I wrong? Ladies, would you give a man a chance who was bisexual?
Ladies, would you date a man who was bisexual?
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It's not really something that needs to be kept secret. I think the secret itself would cause more problems in the relationship then the being bisexual would.
And imagine, let's just say there's a girl that is homophobic, and the secret comes out after a few years, that's not going to be a pretty. It's better to be upfront about things like that to people whom it concerns.
Gaucho
Well-known member
hello black puma,
i meant at the start of a relationship, when the 2 people are starting to know each other. like in the 2nd date already telling her that he is bi.
but ofcourse like you said, its better to be open.
Flowers-Of-Bloom
Well-known member
Sure. Like twiggle said, a cheat is a cheat and I don't think it has anything to with sexual orientation. My last bf was bisexual and it didn't bother me at all.
Phoenixx
Well-known member
^ Exactly this.
Incognito10
Member
Well, it is encouraging to see all the positive replies.
I have been kind of led to believe otherwise though because I have created profiles on some dating sites and I am always sure to disclose important information about myself and I am afraid this scares women off. I also mention that I have social anxiety. I feel it is best to let people know how I am upfront, no secrets.
I have been kind of led to believe otherwise though because I have created profiles on some dating sites and I am always sure to disclose important information about myself and I am afraid this scares women off. I also mention that I have social anxiety. I feel it is best to let people know how I am upfront, no secrets.
KiaKaha
Banned
Perhaps - some women dont like bisexuality or any kind of homosexuality - just as equally (no doubt) as those who would accept it.
I dont think there are any rules or generalizations - it just comes down to the individual.
I wouldnt worry about it man.
I admire your courage to disclose such information.
I dont think there are any rules or generalizations - it just comes down to the individual.
I wouldnt worry about it man.
I admire your courage to disclose such information.
Hellhound
Super Moderator
Actually I think you're right, because don't a lot of guys think it's a "turnon" if a girl makes out with a girl or some thing stupid like that?
Anyways, I would probably date a bisexual guy. I mean it depends on what he's like. But I'm saying that his orientation wouldn't make me not date him.
Anyways, I would probably date a bisexual guy. I mean it depends on what he's like. But I'm saying that his orientation wouldn't make me not date him.
Opaline
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I have to admit this is something that has always puzzled me.
I have nothing against gays or bisexuals or whatever else you are/want to be. But I admit that I wouldn't be comfortable dating a man who told me he is bisexual. I just wouldn't be comfortable knowing he was with a man at some point and then with me. Am I the only one here who feels this way?
And I don't think it's wrong of me to feel that way, it's not like I have anything against bisexual men or women, I just wouldn't want to date someone who could be with either sex. I don't know how to explain it. I could pretend I'm okay with it but then I'd be lying and it wouldn't work out.
Maybe I just find it difficult to grasp the fact that someone can in fact be attracted to both sexes. I acknowledge it and am fine with it, but I don't quite understand it.
I hope no one jumps all over me for saying this, I'm not hating on bisexuals in any way, it is just a preference.
I have nothing against gays or bisexuals or whatever else you are/want to be. But I admit that I wouldn't be comfortable dating a man who told me he is bisexual. I just wouldn't be comfortable knowing he was with a man at some point and then with me. Am I the only one here who feels this way?
And I don't think it's wrong of me to feel that way, it's not like I have anything against bisexual men or women, I just wouldn't want to date someone who could be with either sex. I don't know how to explain it. I could pretend I'm okay with it but then I'd be lying and it wouldn't work out.
Maybe I just find it difficult to grasp the fact that someone can in fact be attracted to both sexes. I acknowledge it and am fine with it, but I don't quite understand it.
I hope no one jumps all over me for saying this, I'm not hating on bisexuals in any way, it is just a preference.
Well I will say that some of the people who I have known who have said they are bisexual are really promiscuous, which I know is a stereotype but it's my experience. Like I knew this girl who said she was bisexual but she didn't even really go out with any girls. She just said that I think because she was ...well I don't want to say it.
MarionBerry
Well-known member
I'll admit it, I've passed by every dating profile I've ever seen of a bisexual man. This has more to do with me being insecure, thinking that their playing field is so much bigger than mine that I don't have a chance. And if I did have a chance that they'd leave me for a hot dude. I don't have a problem thinking that they'd been with another guy. Actually, I find that pretty hot.
Me too, actually.
Though when it comes to dating sites it might make me pause, simply because I wouldn't be sure whether or not they are looking for an exclusive relationship. Then again, plenty of the straight guys I met from dating sites weren't looking for anything exclusive, so there's really no way of telling for sure.
