Opaline
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Question is in the title. When getting to know people, is it better to be more open and therefore possibly be able to connect with people on a more personal/emotional level, or is it better to have your guard up and be more cautious so they don't know too much too soon (before you can trust them) and/or can't hurt you?
I've vacillated between wanting to share too much information at first and not sharing enough. Is there a happy medium? Sometimes opening up and spilling a deep feeling or insecurity can help you connect with someone, but sometimes it can backfire and they can use it against you or judge you.
What do you think?
I've vacillated between wanting to share too much information at first and not sharing enough. Is there a happy medium? Sometimes opening up and spilling a deep feeling or insecurity can help you connect with someone, but sometimes it can backfire and they can use it against you or judge you.
What do you think?