You're absolutely right! Many people are drawn to beauty. With so many people being drawn to good looking people, the chances of drawing the wrong kinds of people increases.
I agree, which is why I have little time for the argument that SA girls have it easy because all they have to do is stand around waiting to get approached by guys. It doesn't take into account that they'll be approached by a lot of douchebags, losers, players, moochers, scumbags and all the other types of guys that they have absolutely no interest in. There might be some genuine nice guys in there too, but a lot of those will probably be put off, thinking that they don't stand a chance against the other lot.
On the other hand, I've known gorgeous women who had no friends at all. Some women have a fear of being "upstaged" by someone who is more attractive, capable or intelligent. Women strive to remain equal within their groups and if anyone upsets that delicate balance then things can turn nasty. Most women also don't like conflict so it's only normal that some will avoid women whom they think will steal their thunder.
There is a trio of women who sometimes hang out with my friends. It is evident that they don't want to have anything to do with me. I wish I could blame it on my SA or paranoia, but that simply is not the case. Two of the women look annoyed every time I show up. I've been polite, smiled and said, "hello" before and they just ignore me. One of the women I saw outside a club I was meeting my friends at...The bouncer was giving me a hard time - wouldn't let me in because he thought I was too young... the cow was standing a few feet in front of us looking over at me with an amused smirk on her face. Once I got into the club and sat next to my friends...these women kept their backs turned to us even if we were all in one company.
Do these women have boyfriends or husbands? I haven't seen any pictures of you, but I get the impression you are what most guys would described as "hot".
I can imagine that a lot of less attractive women would feel quite threatened by that, and would be quite hostile to you being around their SO. Even if they are single, they'd possibly regard you as unwanted competition. I've seen this kind of thing happen amongst women before, yet the same doesn't seem to happen amongst men if there is a particularly good looking guy present.
Let me not even get started on the other crazy women I've encountered. Sorry. I'm making it seem like women are the only mean ones out there. I've had my fair share of weird men drawn to me.
Well there are a lot of weird men out there.
