i think i messed up on my first date... :/

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Marie Lafont

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I was going out with this guy that i had this crush on ever since i started highschool...
and we started talking over facebook and today we decided to set up a date.

i was really happy but when we got to the restaurant my nerves were screaming at me like crazy...it was one of those fancy kinds and i've never had anybody do something like that for me before (take me out for dinner and be a gentlemen)
i'd laugh at everything he'd say...and i could tell he knew i was a lil nervous. (he even asked if i was okay)
he was nervous too but i feel like i was way worse...

into the whole thing i started to calm down after a while...but i was still on edge.. :/
i spoke normally and everything...its just that i might have looked way more than a little nervous.

My dad is kinda strict and over-protective and we both knew he was waiting outside...so our 'goodbye' kiss was sorta awkward...and not really a kiss at all (we just touched lips and tounges... sorta)

And i feel like i REALLY messed up :/

i wanted to be under control when i got there but...oh god :/
urgh i just kept laughing and looked all nervous/uncomfortable.

do you think i left a bad impression? :/
 
Phoenixx

Phoenixx

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First, I want to say congrats on getting the date. :) I really doubt you left a bad impression. How you described, you were both nervous, and he could tell that you were clearly more nervous than he was. I really don't think he's going to hold that against you. To me, it sounds like he had a good time with you.
 
WeirdyMcGee

WeirdyMcGee

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Sounds like a first date, to me.

I think you did just fine and you should try to have a bit more confidence in yourself~ you got a date! Sounds like he likes you!
 
Luna1740

Luna1740

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Trust me, as a guy, from his point of view, you are totally fine. You could have thrown up on him and it most likely wouldn't have deterred him lol, first dates are just weird unless you've known the person for a long time
 
Falkor

Falkor

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congratulationz on the date!! :]
i think you did fine, i was exact the same on my first date ::p: and still the other person wanted to see me again :) and laughing is fine, it's better than being all serious and no smile at all :p but i know it could be a little embarrassing to feel awkward, but you'll get used to him, so you will feel comfortable around him:)
I don't think you did leave a bad impression, it's normal to feel nervous on dates,
so i bet he understands you :) maybe you should ask him, to meet up another time? see how he responds? ^^

good luck!
 
Metal_isthe_Answer

Metal_isthe_Answer

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If he still wanted to kiss you at the end of all that, I'd say you did just fine.

Ive got to agree with that, for all you know, he got home and felt like he made a fool out himself, also, an over protective father can understandably make you feel tense, I imagine he would understand
 
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