Well my friend, at least you're not quite where I am: chronically single and gay.
I'm not sure about what to tell you when it comes to seeking intimate relationships. Our society seems to have a very weak sense of community these days, and people are much more focused on career and the magical spirituality found in "loving oneself" than actually connecting with other human beings on a highly personal level. OK, so maybe you'll love yourself someday, but that's still not going to be a true substitute for a relationship with someone else, despite what Oprah and the love scorned souls of the world might tell you.
The only way I can think of meeting people is to perhaps go to clubs, but that's not very helpful for many people like us. I'm not really sure where people encounter their future significant others these days. When I hear other people talk they say they met them at school or something.
Sometimes I wish many of us on this forum, (I won't say all because there are some jerks who hover here who seem intent on making others feel worse), could get together and become our own kind of community.