I think i am destined to be single for all my life
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Erik2911
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Umm, I feel really bad for many of the previous posters and you guys must be so much stronger than me because from reading some of your stories I think I would not be alive if such things happened to me.
Can I just start by saying that looks mean absolutely **** all guys...
I am 27 and a virgin, however, unlike a lot of the posters on here facing the same issue I am not shy at all, if anything I actually have a reputation of having slept with many girls, I get complimented on my looks often and gone out on dates with some really beautiful girls, I am very outgoing and go out frequently to clubs (been to one tonight).
I get complimented even by blokes ffs... problem is that I dont take compliments on board, I am aware of these compliments but I dont feel them to be true, in my head they are empty compliments, I never walk in a room and think I am the most attractive bloke in there... in fact I find the ugliest ****er in a room and hope I am slightly better looking than him.
At the moment my confidence and self esteem are pretty low, the last girl I was hanging out with, whom I gave 6 months of my life to, and thousands of $ in things she liked ended up sleeping with my best friend (of 10 years) and have not seen either of them in months.
But thats another story...
I always seem to get stuck in the friends zone, always, right now I started becoming closer to my housemate, shes younger than me and very attractive, one day before I knew her as well as I do now she walked in my room and basically wanted sex... I kept my cool and just said I have a policy of not shagging housemates, she was drunk and I just thought that'd be really awkard, not that I didnt want to, trust me I had a rock hard erection with the way she was teasing me.
But now, 3-4 months after that, I really want her but she doesnt want me because we are "great friends" and she wants to be "friends forever" which is something I have heard dozens of times before and out of all those girls none are my friends anymore, well some are but they got b/f, families, babies etc so we lost touch.
What is my problem? seems to be that I actually want to find a non-sexual connection before I have sex with them, why does this sound so normal to me but seems to be so damn hard?
Girls reading this... you are all so damn weird
Oh yeah, once this girl that I hung out with (another friend zone) even told me that her b/f asked her if she wanted to split up with him so that she could go out with me because we looked so good together and got on so well....
Obv I said: "why not" and in shock she says: "but you are my best friend!"
Sick of hearing that, honestly feels like getting stabbed in the heart when I hear that.
Can I just start by saying that looks mean absolutely **** all guys...
I am 27 and a virgin, however, unlike a lot of the posters on here facing the same issue I am not shy at all, if anything I actually have a reputation of having slept with many girls, I get complimented on my looks often and gone out on dates with some really beautiful girls, I am very outgoing and go out frequently to clubs (been to one tonight).
I get complimented even by blokes ffs... problem is that I dont take compliments on board, I am aware of these compliments but I dont feel them to be true, in my head they are empty compliments, I never walk in a room and think I am the most attractive bloke in there... in fact I find the ugliest ****er in a room and hope I am slightly better looking than him.
At the moment my confidence and self esteem are pretty low, the last girl I was hanging out with, whom I gave 6 months of my life to, and thousands of $ in things she liked ended up sleeping with my best friend (of 10 years) and have not seen either of them in months.
But thats another story...
I always seem to get stuck in the friends zone, always, right now I started becoming closer to my housemate, shes younger than me and very attractive, one day before I knew her as well as I do now she walked in my room and basically wanted sex... I kept my cool and just said I have a policy of not shagging housemates, she was drunk and I just thought that'd be really awkard, not that I didnt want to, trust me I had a rock hard erection with the way she was teasing me.
But now, 3-4 months after that, I really want her but she doesnt want me because we are "great friends" and she wants to be "friends forever" which is something I have heard dozens of times before and out of all those girls none are my friends anymore, well some are but they got b/f, families, babies etc so we lost touch.
What is my problem? seems to be that I actually want to find a non-sexual connection before I have sex with them, why does this sound so normal to me but seems to be so damn hard?
Girls reading this... you are all so damn weird
Oh yeah, once this girl that I hung out with (another friend zone) even told me that her b/f asked her if she wanted to split up with him so that she could go out with me because we looked so good together and got on so well....
Obv I said: "why not" and in shock she says: "but you are my best friend!"
Sick of hearing that, honestly feels like getting stabbed in the heart when I hear that.