I guess I'll start off by saying this isn't a "how do i get her to like me and leave him" thread... Really, I'm just not sure how to deal with the entire situation. I work with this girl, and have gotten to know her pretty well over the last 6 months or so. We hit it off really well and have several things in common. The problem is that I have started having feelings for her. She has a boyfriend already (they have been together for 2 years) and I don't see that ending, nor am I trying to cause any trouble there. I talk to her at work often, and see her outside of work occasionally, sometimes its just been me and her hanging out with no one else. It's always me who initiates conversation or suggest going to do something after work (which bugs me that I don't really see any effort on her end). The whole situation, having feelings for her, and the fact i never really see effort from her to make plans or have conversations, really drags me down sometimes. Sometimes I think I should just try to forget about her, stop making an effort to talk and be friends. I've made an attempt at that a couple times now but keep getting sucked back in. It makes it even more difficult that I work with her and am in the same room throughout most of the day. I can't really avoid her or anything. I often have think about staying somewhat close to her in case something ever happens between her and her current boyfriend... but i don't want to be hanging on to this and hold me back from meeting other people. I'm not sure what to do.
I guess I'm just looking to see if anyone else has been in a similar situation, how they dealt with it, how it ended up... comments, advice, whatever.
I guess I'm just looking to see if anyone else has been in a similar situation, how they dealt with it, how it ended up... comments, advice, whatever.