Felgen
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How many older virgins (who were open about it) do you know who actually got married to attractive women, fathered children and so on?
I have never had a girlfriend in my life
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How many older virgins (who were open about it) do you know who actually got married to attractive women, fathered children and so on?
Steppen-Wolf
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I really do think that confidence is the key, once you stop acting like a scared puppy girls at the very least start noticing that you exists, and from then is just a matter of finding someone who suits you.
Of course, you have to think within your means; if you're unattractive, broke, charmless, uninteresting and so on, you can't really expect to find a some amazing girl, unless you're extremely lucky.
Of course, you have to think within your means; if you're unattractive, broke, charmless, uninteresting and so on, you can't really expect to find a some amazing girl, unless you're extremely lucky.
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I actually asked a couple of ladies today at college and they said the same thing. In fact they believe that a guy with less experience would probably treat a girl better than a guy thats been in a lot. Their reasoning being that theres that possibility he might come into the relationship with baggage from his last GF. Of course I didnt mention the SA and depression stuff, Im not stupid. But at least experience isn't as big deal as we might feel it is. One less thing to worry about.
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BiWinning
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I suspect that in the majority of cases, if you put the guy who's complaining about not having a girlfriend in the same room as the girl complaining about not having a boyfriend, they would do their best to avoid each other and share few if any words.
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Theres a girl in your country I really want to meet. Damn distance. Why cant I exist in all places at all times? Wait thats kinda creepy >.>
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Im a frayed knot sir :-|
Thelema
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look at Donald Trump. He's no looker.
drganon
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I'm not that hideous, but I'm also no billionaire either.
Thelema
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Well you don't expect to date supermodels, either. Name the successful person that can't get a date. See? Can't do it.
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There's got to be at least one person in the world that would like to get involved with you. You gotta think, I hear about women developing relationships with dudes in prison. You're scraping from the bottom of the barrel if you're trying to start something serious with a dude who can't leave a building for a few years. Most likely the one thing screwing us over is we dont express interest to enough women. For me I only ask a girl out like one every blue moon, then after the rejection, get discouraged from asking anyone else for another several months.
*disclaimer* This is only my opinion and I do not mean to offend anyone who may be involved with a prisoner or is with someone who may have been released from jail.
I dont think that is true,they might be trying to be nice or whatever reason,but we definetely know they wont go for those guys,for example go to the thread:would you date younger or older people,you will see that male inexperience is very frowned upon.
Thelema
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I agree. What people say is different than what they necessarily do.
Truth. Thankfully, women are not like employers. You don't have to submit a resume to be checked for a certain list of absolute requirements (not most women, anyway), without which you will be summarily dismissed before the interview. If a girl likes you, she likes you.
How many women you talk to has a lot more to do with your success rate than, well, probably anything. It's worse than useless to spend your time fretting over what you don't have to offer. I can easily come up with numerous reasons why other men are better candidates than myself. Lucky for all of us, women often have highly questionable judgment.
!Lucky for all of us, women often have highly questionable judgment.
LOL Nathaniel!!!!!
Pips, now that's the attitude!! Real life field experience!!
No use pondering over it alone in the room when you can ask actual target market demographics about it!!
Well, I was thinking the other day... No matter how flawed, messed up, bitchy/bipolar, stupid/ignorant/clueless wo/men are (or can be), there are always others out there DESPERATE for any friendly word/look/interest... I guess it works both ways!!
So, no matter how messed up you are, there are people out there even more messed up than you (or even more together, and just clueless lol)
There are people 'out there' with kinks for just about anything!!
Think girls don't like the broody/depressed/miserable type - think again! Why are the Twilight/vampire series so popular??
Well, you want to avoid the too desperate ones and look for some quality people to hang out with, and work on yourself and your own self image/communication/cooking/money-making skills meanwhile etc.
The high breakup/divorce rates just mean people need to learn how to be better partners etc.
Shy people can be much better partners than the too-loud too-obnoxious partygoing animals!! (no offense to anyone who is one!! Just check any teenage 'comedy' series though - a shy nice guy could be a muuch better partner than some of those big mouth types out there!!)
lol that is true - if both are too shy there needs to be another way of 'ice-breaking', eg some common interest, common friends or doing some volunteer work together or such...
(where I live, unfortunately usually the 'ice breaker' is alcohol, which makes too shy guys turn into too-obnoxious Casanovas lol whereupon it's difficult to take them seriously...)