^ I do, I do, I do..oooooooooo!
No, it's not the outfit. It's just your expression in the picture.
No, it's not the outfit. It's just your expression in the picture.
How are you feeling?
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MikeyC
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I hate that feeling of not knowing who's going to be moving in next door. :: I'm not surprised you don't want to see the good neighbours leave.
Hope you get someone decent.
Thanks, guys. Definitely did not want to see them leave, but they're a busy couple doing all sorts of work-related and play-related stuff, traveling everywhere, and living life to the full. Living in such a rewarding city like Melbourne will ultimately fuel the fires in their bellies.I hope you find good neighbours MikeyC
I just hope the new neighbours are just as good. I apparently have to let them know via Facebook if they're annoying or not. :
:Absolutely! I hope you are talking about you. ^_^You know you're gonna feel happy when you wake up to something that makes you feel happy.
Oh, wow. That's hectic. You will probably have a second wind flow through you until the fatigue sets in. Good luck!
antihistamine
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I'm feeling a bit like that recently...my self-esteem has taken a real battering especially on this site. I'm starting to doubt myself and compare myself to others..I need to remind myself that:
it doesn't matter how successful you are in your career or with the opposite sex. Or how many wonderful children you produced or even the fact that you managed to get married.Or even that you are popular on this forum.
It's the integrity and courage that you have to hold hope and love in your heart even when the odds are against you!!
Eristelle
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antihistamine
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A cute little kitten though. I saw your photo!!
Eristelle
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Well, yes. I am a cute little bundle of love.
That's why mommy likes to cuddle me. <3Wait, which photo?
antihistamine
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In one of the pictures threads yesterday...you didn't post one there recently?
Eristelle
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Oh. I didn't know which picture you were referring to. My kitten or myself.
Yes, I did post there. I'm not that cute though. I feel far more courageous though for actually posting it. It's like one teeny tiny baby step for me.
antihistamine
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see your courage is improving
Eristelle
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Invisibleman
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I feel pretty good. I wanted to get back in shape (since ive let myself go fitness wise) but I couldnt find the courage to go for a run because I can only do it afterschool when theres lots of people. I braved it though and finally went out.
MikeyC
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I can assure you that you're not.
MikeyC
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Good for you, mate! I definitely need to do the same thing but I just have so little willpower it's laughable. I bet you felt like a super hero when you did it.
dottie
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drained and horrible. from the moment i wake up to the moment i go to sleep i am consumed with dread, anxiety, and unhappiness. my new job is killing me. not because of the work, the work itself is fine. it is the environment. no windows, fluorescent lighting, sitting in an open office environment with people walking around me, being watched by my supervisor whose desk is directly facing mine. all day. i do not have any privacy all day long except when i hide out in my car on my lunch break. i spend my entire day fake smiling, being on form to laugh at all the right places, and listening to commercial music. the lack of privacy is exhausting. i have no joy. no energy to feign joy.
then i hang out with my boyfriend after work but have nothing to contribute. in fact, i tend to take it out on him which is undeserved. i am afraid i will lose him. it's going to happen. he doesn't want to be around someone who is so saturated in misery. can you blame him?
i've only been at this job for 3 weeks and i feel like i am going to crack.
then i hang out with my boyfriend after work but have nothing to contribute. in fact, i tend to take it out on him which is undeserved. i am afraid i will lose him. it's going to happen. he doesn't want to be around someone who is so saturated in misery. can you blame him?
i've only been at this job for 3 weeks and i feel like i am going to crack.
coyote
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that's such a bad place to be in
does your boyfriend know why you're feeling/behaving the way you are
talking to him about it might make things easier between you
Aletheia
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Oh dottie, I so feel for you.
Aletheia
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Yeah, the music would drive me bonkers, too.
I can't even listen to my own choice of music if I need to concentrate, and commercial radio stations are just horrible blaring noise machines.
this_portrait
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I have no one to talk to right now, and it's making me feel sad and think about things I really don't want to be thinking about... :/
dottie
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thanks for listening. i've talked about it with my bf. although he says that he understands, what i really think he wants to say is, "man up". i think he says he understands because it is the right thing to say and he wants to avoid fighting... he is very courteous to the point of not revealing what he really thinks. but i don't think he really understands. i get the feeling he is majorly rolling his eyes at me on the inside. and disgusted.
the thing is i'm a temp-to-hire and i'm afraid to come off the wrong way because then they might let me go instead of eventually hiring me (i need a job desperately). i can't really ask for different seating because i am part of a team and the team is a room with a bunch of desks. the only ones who get offices are the top dogs.
in an open office environment there is a constant paranoia, a constant pressure to appear to be adamantly toiling away. this is the biggest pressure. you always feel like you are being watched and calculated by passersby. it feels like an invisible whip cracking all day, every day. what is so wrong with giving people privacy?
idk idk... i've been off of work for 4.5 hours and i am still stressing to the max about it.
the thing is i'm a temp-to-hire and i'm afraid to come off the wrong way because then they might let me go instead of eventually hiring me (i need a job desperately). i can't really ask for different seating because i am part of a team and the team is a room with a bunch of desks. the only ones who get offices are the top dogs.
in an open office environment there is a constant paranoia, a constant pressure to appear to be adamantly toiling away. this is the biggest pressure. you always feel like you are being watched and calculated by passersby. it feels like an invisible whip cracking all day, every day. what is so wrong with giving people privacy?
idk idk... i've been off of work for 4.5 hours and i am still stressing to the max about it.