Srijita52
Well-known member
I HATE that. My mom LOVES, LOVES, LOVES to do this to me. She knows I hate talking to people and she knows I hate hugging people. But yet she will be like "here talk to so and so" I am like I don't want to and she will say "Please, for me, please do it, for me?" And she will make things sooooo awkward and force me into it. Same thing with hugs, she will say "Aw come on, give Aunt Nell a hug" and I will shake my head nervously "aw come on just do it, just do it, come on" That makes things so so much worse because not only am I being forced into a situation that makes me uncomfortable but I look like a horrible person that doesn't want to hug the other person. I am sure they feel insulted and take it personally when it has nothing to do with them.
My mom is somewhat same specially when she's with my aunt who's famous for forcing me to do such things. I'm sorry you're going through this too.