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[hellodarkness]

Im new here but here goes. Im about 17 tall kinda chubby guy anyways there is this beautiful girl thats very special to me and i would do anything to make her happy if not mine she said she would date me after her and her current bf broke up... well they broke up today and instead of dating me she decided she didnt want a bf for a while so heres my question give up and move on? Or stay and wait patiently

 

[Hellhound]

Wait patiently for a while. Give her some time

 

[Gidi]

Stay and wait patiently if she's the girl you really want to be with

 

[Starry]

Give her time... Even up to a month or two... Then consider moving on. Even if she never is with you, the very least you can be is a good friend...

 

[spider04]

Tell her that you will wait for her

 

[Srijita52]

I agree with everyone, give her a bit time and wait.

 

[hellodarkness]

Thank you guys. Im just really paranoid and afraid for lack of a better term

 

[hellodarkness]

Update asked her out today and she started changing the subject then said but were great friends i didnt push it any further and kinda just left her alone... im thinking i want to stay alone aswell

 

[Hellhound]

I believe it was way too soon to ask her. You should give her time, man.

 

[cowboyup]

I agree with what everyone said, wait patiently. But if a no-go, then please move on. For your own sake.

re: your update... I am sorry to hear that but at least you know where she stands without 'patiently waiting'... perhaps it would be best for you to take some time for yourself as well. Just some alone time.

I'm not saying it will be easy, because it most likely will not be easy. One baby step day at a time.

Best of luck

 

[coyote]

Hi, and welcome to the forum! %^Ꮏ

 

[hellodarkness]

Thanks all. Im going to go lie down now because then hurting my heart i messed up my leg..

 

[satstrn]

Shell probably end up with someone else. She knows you want her and that turns her off because women want what they cant have. Go on a date with someone else, that will probably increase your chances with her. Women go with how they feel, always. If shes not feeling it now, she probably wont later either. I'd just move on if I were you.

 

[Hellhound]

Shell probably end up with someone else. She knows you want her and that turns her off because women want what they cant have. Go on a date with someone else, that will probably increase your chances with her. Women go with how they feel, always. If shes not feeling it now, she probably wont later either. I'd just move on if I were you.

Please, I kindly ask you not to speak for all women. Thank you.

 

[hellodarkness]

And now paranoia sets in cause she just said ask me again. And im thinking she is going to say yes out of pity...

 

[Section_31]

You should ask her that. Ask her if shes saying yes because she doesnt want to hurt you or if shes really interested in that type of relationship. be upfront. not pushy, but just honest.

If she really is interested she'll let you know.

 

[hellodarkness]

I asked her if she was just pitying me she said she just wanted a good guy but im still paranoid

 

[Section_31]

ok, breathe. try to relax.

I say go for it. This may be a big opportunity for you.

Keep us posted!

 

[Hellhound]

I asked her if she was just pitying me she said she just wanted a good guy but im still paranoid

Go for it!

 

[Remus]

She just broke up with her BF, so I'm guessing she probably feels like crap like now, show some consideration and give her time to heal, you may end up messing up the friendship if you continue.