Personally i think you did the right thing.The more you start standing up for yourself and the things you beleive in the stronger person you will become.Keep it up i say but this is just my opinion
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Personally i think you did the right thing.The more you start standing up for yourself and the things you beleive in the stronger person you will become.Keep it up i say but this is just my opinion
I think it's a social anxiety situation; managing and living with strangers gives me more anxiety than it would other people. I posted on this forum because I needed help sorting out different variables that have come up.
I think you're taking it a bit too seriously. I don't really need any references about tenant rights; and you're not really helping me at all so why don't you stop posting on my thread.
wow. you just walked in? what if he was *********ing?
omg reason 236248634 why i don't have roommates. they might walk in on me.
It's fine to disagree but I these replies are very unhelpful. ::I disagree with everything you wrote in this post. ^ Goodbye.
And I can't afford, like you Dottie, to live on my own. I'm not a bad roommate like you've said repeatedly.
That's a hard situation. It sounds like you fear being taken advantage so much so that you make sure to control the situation so that can't happen..
It's fine to disagree but I these replies are very unhelpful. ::
Etbow, I don't believe you've done anything wrong. You knocked on his door, he didn't answer. You knocked again, he didn't answer. For all you know, he may have been passed out/unconscious. If he heard the knocks, he would've asked you to come back later if he was busy. I wouldn't fret too much about this because you did the right thing.
ok this comment made me mad.
1. i work hard to live on my own. it is not a stroke of luck.
2. i didn't call you a bad roommate repeatedly.
3. what the hell.
4. ignoring this thread furthermore.
It's difficult having roommates. I can't speak from personal experience at all, but everyone living together has to come up with rules and ways to share a house that won't drive each other crazy. Sometimes these rules are compromised - like what you're doing through in terms of them bringing people over and being loud - so discussing it or airing your issues with them is a must, otherwise you will go nuts.
Your roommates are obviously allowed to bring people over and have friends, but you have a right to your own headspace, too, and they should realise that. Having your needs brushed to one side time and time again will ensure nobody will live harmoniously in that house.
I didn't know, for example, until I looked it up online, that you're ideally supposed to interview candidates to find out about their personality and whether they would be compatible with you. I think I just simply didn't choose people that were the best, most compatible roommates to be with, and this has been part of the problem.