I am friendly.
I am just too shy to be friendly.
Good point
I am friendly.
I am just too shy to be friendly.
I know what you mean Etbow.
I feel the same towards most of my roommates and often I have absolutely no will to interact with them, but have to anyway. I don't care for them, and rather avoid them. I don't like isolating myself, but at home, I just want to be left alone and have private space when I go to the kitchen to eat and whatever. Not the forced awkward interaction with people I don't particularly like or care for.
Deep down though I know if I felt better about myself and my life I would be more sociable with people, but alas. Social anxiety and depression is a bitch.
Hopefully gonna be able to move out soon.
I am friendly.
I am just too shy to be friendly.
Good point
I cant stand when someone comes in while i'm cooking.
and with social anxiety, but I do think it's worth it to be on friendly terms with roommates and not in the "icy cold communication only via angry emails and notes" stage, which is just not pleasant at all.
Don't walk into a room a renter has paid for. If he doesn't allow you in for whatever reason it is his right unless there is an emergency. Push a note under the door or post it on the door. You are creating a situation that could become ugly and backfire. If you want them to respect you and your rules, you must be a good "landlord". Maybe you should take the dogs for a walk when you feel anxious.
Why did you quote landlord? Like mocking me? I basically am the landlord, but I don't get to keep the rent I collect. I don't own the house, but I manage everything so my mother doesn't have to worry about her property being ruined.